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writes:So aunts and uncles, I asked a question a few weeks ago about a guy I talk to in New Jersey, whom I planned on pursuing when I got up there. He's my best friends brother, and we've hung out and what not when he comes down here to visit family..Well yesterday I went to send him a message on Facebook, annd I couldnt. His picture was still there, but his name is black. Which is an indicator someone blocked you. Well I had my friend look him up from her account, and look on his brothers friends list abd he wasnt there. But when you deactivate your account your picture goes away. So I'm super confused. He has no reason to block me, and why cant we find him? Should I ask a mutual friend about it, see what happened, or let it go? I dont want to seem desperate :(
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 August 2014):
 I agree with highmaintainance101
He is JUST not interested.
A guy who blocks you, has no interest to know you further. You can ask his why, but that will make you come across as dense more than desperate.
I mean, seriously, if YOU decide to block someone, it's because you don't WANT to talk to them, right? Pretty much logic.
I think you are just having to accept that the guy is not interested IN you.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (25 August 2014):
 He probably has a girlfriend back home and you coming to stay/visit is a threat to his relationship or he never was serious about a relationship and you were just there for convenience. Sorry that can only be the answer. Don't call dont chase, don't ask friends, move on.
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reader, sugarplum786 +, writes (25 August 2014):
He probably has a girlfriend back home and you coming to stay/visit is a threat to his relationship or he never was serious about a relationship and you were just there for convenience. Sorry that can only be the answer. Don't call dont chase, don't ask friends, move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2014): His not interested.
A guy who blocks you has no interest to know you.
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