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I don't think she is showing me her true self, her true life?

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Question - (22 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2009)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi there, first i would like to thank you all for your previous advises to heal my inferiority complex...this days something has happened to me...there was this girl whom we are working together in a bank...we begin it as a friend, we discuss on many issues especially her life; as much as i can i tried to share her feelings(good or bad) for i believe a friend should do so, i always give my ears to her even during my busy hours....however, i have come to discover that she always try to hide me her true lives, sometimes she also try to brag about herself,she doesn't even want to show me her home while inviting other friends of ours,....and i am questioning that ' is she my real friend?'by the way i don't care whether she invited me or not but i qustion that 'doesn't a friend deserve so?'....i am a bit confused, is she a friend or is she just playing as if?.......what do you say?

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A male reader, agtorange United States +, writes (22 January 2009):

agtorange agony auntShe just likes the attention, if someone will tune in to hear what she has to say she probably eats it up.

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A female reader, PunkyPippi United States +, writes (22 January 2009):

PunkyPippi agony auntNo, she is not your real friend. This girl sounds like she likes to complain to whoever will listen, and you are simply another person who is in the audience of her life. If you don't enjoy listening, tell her you'd prefer not to hear about her personal life.

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