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My friend was offended & is depressed. How can I help?

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Question - (22 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2009)
A female Philippines age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear readers, good day.

a friend of mine encountered a problem. a problem that made him angry to a certain group of people in a state.

the story is this. he tries to answer all the questions in a site that is made to ask questions about relationship. then, after answering a very controversial question, some people tried to put him down by questioning his answers. his answers were supported by proofs. but the antagonists continue to put him down.

i care for this person because he helped me when i had problems and he answers questions well.

now this person plans to quit answering because of this incident.

i just don't want to let him stop because of the people who try to put him down. in tagalog, "makapanghinayang ba kasi magaling sya magsagot."

i think if he will continue, he may help many people who needs advices.

now here are my questions:

how can i stop him from quitting?

how can i tell him to stop thinking of that incident and continue helping others?

i just wanted to help a friend. some advices???

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A female reader, PunkyPippi United States +, writes (22 January 2009):

PunkyPippi agony auntWow... that's hard. The final decision will be his of course, but I think you need to tell him exactly what you've told us. See if you can find other people who feel the same, and have them write to him as well.

Good luck!

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