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writes:well im 15 and my best friendiis 19 .we have be friend for 2 year .i really like .well i think im falling in love with him .well he asked me out but i dont want to go out with him cause he bout to go off to college but then again i do cause i love being around i love everything bout him .anyway should i go out with him or not
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (18 January 2009):
i think it is great that you are friends, but i don't think you should date him.
for a start he is much older then you and when it comes to romance he probably has different ideas then you do.
also he is about to start college/uni, from my experience you don't want to start college/uni with a gf/bf. you meet far too many new people with similar interests and college is all about having parties and hooking up with new people. he is not going to want to miss out on all of that because he is dating a 15 year old school girl. sorry it's harsh, but i've been to uni and i know what goes on. but carry on being friends, also a relationship could ruin your friendship. sometimes friendship is far more important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): there is a huge age gap between you especially at such a young age, you are both at different points in your life. he will want different things than you do. he will need his freedom at collage, to meet other girls and socialise its not really fair to expect you to accept this nor for him to adhear to it. why don't you stay friends whilst he is at collage and see how it goes when you are both a little older.
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reader, Massari  +, writes (18 January 2009):
Hey
I would be careful, as he is going to college. At college, he would be exposed to lots of new people, and knowing most guys they would run off with them.
So I would say avoid going out with him, keep in contact etc.
BUT if you think it could work, give it a shot. Just be careful...
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