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writes:Hi, the other day me and my best mate were in the park chatting to her boyfriend and his mates and somehow my boyfriend saw us and later that day me and my mate where at my house and my boyfriend came round and started shouting at me and then he grabbed me by my arm and threw me across the room and pushed me and my friend started having ago at him and made him leave and now he says she was interfering and that I should fall out with her but I think she was being a good friend. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sie.goat  +, writes (18 January 2009):
ABUSE! http://encyclopediadramatica.com/I'm_so_confused Its pretty obvious what to do is this situation. KICK HIS GOD DAM ASS. Unless your a 16-year-old-girl. Then go complain about it on Myspace.
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reader, mosie  +, writes (18 January 2009):
I do think she was being an excellent friend, standing up for you. I am thankful for you that she was there "interfering." I wish I had a friend like that when I was going through this same thing you are. When you are in a relationship with someone, sometimes it is easy to let things like the abuse (and what he did to you is abusive) slide, even if it doesn't seem like he is doing much. Your friend, being outside of the relationship and therefore having no emotional ties with your boyfriend, per se, recognized and diffused a situation that could have become very, very violent. Your boyfriend wants you to fall out with her because he now knows that she recognizes his potential, his abusive potential, and as long as she is around he cannot control you. Kick your boyfriend to the curb and hold tight to your friend with all of your might. Boys come and go, good friends like her will be with you until the end of time. Good luck and God bless!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): Your friends should ALWAYS come before your boyfriend,
if your boyfriend doesn't like your best friend, then leave him. The fact that he grabbed you and threw you across the room, would have been your cue to leave.
But, if this question is serious, then you should leave him.
He shouldn't have gotten physical with you regardless of how angry he may have gotten.
And, he should never tell you to stop being friends with someone.
Your friends will always come first in a relationship.
He should know that being a guy.
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