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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Lovers or Bestfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - hey evrbdy , im writing cause i need help , im deeply in LOVE with my bestfriend and we will call him MIKE , well me and MIKE have been friends for 2 years and he has a baby and the mother of his child we'll call her LIZ doesnt like me , and i do...

I don't like my husband's best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - So my husbands best freind is somebody who I dont care for. When i first met him, he bragged about how he was cheating on his girfriend to me and my husband. So I dont HATE him, I just wouldnt trust him if i were a girl. Well he has a fiance now ...

I think she loves me, but I don't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Okay so there is this girl that was having problems with her boyfriend and was really sad all the time so I talked to her and gave her some advice on what to do. Then we started talking all the time and then we started flirting with each other, keep ...

She says shes tried to be friends but just doesn't understand me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - I have recently fallen out with a female friend. I've known her for around 8 months. I did like her as something more, but she rejected me. Since, it's been a bit difficult being friends, but it was working out. We got on great the last times we ...

Just friends when he thinks the woman is sexy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Can a male and female just be friends if he thinks the women is sexy?...

He is sweet to me but his friends call me bad names

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Helo I'm Chloe. I'm 13. I've got a boyfriend. Me and him have been fine. Getting along perfectly. We have been together for nearly 7 weeks. Not a single argument. But his friends are always calling me spotty and ugly. I do have a major spot pr...

Why is my girlfriend lying to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Okay, so I have a situation where I can hardly ever trust my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 2 years and I still findit hard to believe her. Sometimes she'll tell me she's busy at work, but then if I call her up 5 minutes later, I...

Am I jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - hey, im 14 and in a relationship with the most beautiful girl ever. and wen ever we talk about my best friend i would get jealous. so in the past she ask me if he was going out with someone for a friend and he was so i said yeah. well the point...

Time for myspace, but not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Well I like this guy and lately, I haven't heard from him even though he claims he likes me. I've tried the not texting him for a while to see if he'll text me but that doesn't work. I've even deleted his number from my phone (mistake) so now...

Is this a good time to make amends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hi Guys Happy New Year to everyone! My problem is that I confessed feelings I had for a female friend of mine this year, and to cut a very long story short, we haven't spoke since I did so, and basically cut each other out of each others li...

We're getting really close, but only by text

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I really fancy this guy, i meet him on holiday every year and we have started getting really close but only by text, he lives in London and i live in Yorkshire, i don't know what to do to see if he likes me. ...

More questions than answers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Over vacation I've been thinking about me and my best friend who I have known for 2 years. I really think our friendship can last through anything. A couple of months ago I told him that I liked him and he still stuck around. sure he hasn't asked me ...

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...

Why doesn't he take me out on a proper date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Its kind of difficult to know where to start. I think that i am head over heels in love with my friend(male)but he doesn't seem to share the feeling. We have known each other for nearly a year but been really good friends for the past 6 months. I ...

Embarassed by drunken friend in front of my date! Will he want to meet up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I had a date tonight w/ this guy but had canceled before.So despite the fact I had a killer migraine tonight - We got together (i didnt want to cancel again n come off as a flake).I had an obligation to be a des. driver for a friend later in the ...

Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...

Attracted to a straight man, I am bi sexual, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - If you have an attraction towards a straight man but he is unaware that you are a bi sexual, what do you do?.... i have a real close friend that i do a lot with ( getting girls, playing sports etc.) but i'm attracted to him more than i think im ...

Her kiss felt different to his, I can't understand why, advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I'm 14, female and bi. A while ago me and my closest friend who's a girl kissed (So I could "experiment"-I told her that, but I actually just wanted to kiss her) A few weeks later a guy I've known for almost a year randomly wanted to hang out. We ...

I am now on a bitter liver...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Alright...--- Well I guess I should start explaining my spot in life. I'm a freshman in highschool and I'm an all around person kinda girl. I never believed in friends but always acquaintences. Just to keep wild emotions out. Im patient, reassur...

She doesn't want to risk our friendship so how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - I have known a girl for about 6 years. I have always liked her. She tells me I am her best friend. Even though I have feelings for her we have both dated different people, but we're both currently single. She seems to date guys older than her. ...

What can I do about this girl I'm in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my best friends girlfriend and i told her on the night of a party that we were all at. My best friend was in her car while we were talking and i told her i was in love with someone that i was afraid to tell and she kept bugging ...

Why didn't he let me know where he was being deployed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I made a male friend 3 years ago. He's is in the USAF and we met on a temporary duty. We kinda liked each other so became quite friendly and flirty , but never intimate. He left soon enough and started emailing since. We shared jokes, thoughts and ...

How can I save my friends and keep these boys away from them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - hello i have a problem well i have two best friends and they are also best friends too!!! But recently some boys are coming between their friendship,the two boys are using one of my friends,to get to her virginity and i found out and i told her ...

Is he using me for sex? Friends with benefits maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Dear Dr. Cupid, I'm in a real sticky situation. I'm seperated from my husband and i have been seeing this guy (best friend) for about 4+ months now. We see eachother 2-3 times per week. We have the best time when we are together and he did tell ...

Is this a lost cause? I feel threatened by his best friend, she will soon come here and I'll study in another city.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Sorry about this being so long. I honestly didn't realize I went on this long rant until I was finished. Anyways, I hope you have the patience... My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now (January 1, 2010 will be our one-year). A...

Should I delete him off facebook, or is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I dont know if to delete him. Basically we met at a festival 4 months ago, when we met we couldnt stop talking and it was dead sweet because we lost each other. And i thought id never see him again and i searched for him on facebook when i got home...

I want to stop thinking about him sleeping with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I need help and advice, something is playing on my mind and is detrimental to my relationship. My boyfriend has a good female friend, and they always used to flirt and I did wonder if anything was underlying. Me and my boyfriend had a month or so of ...

Are these signs that he likes me or just doesn't want to be my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - me and my guy best friend are really really close. when we started the new school year he used to find me in the halls and talk to me and always wanted to hug me. when i would see him in his class he would always wave and smile at me. recently ...

How to ask her out without ruining our future

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - Alright my best friend and i ahve been friends for a while now and i have recently fallen in love with her. She knows that i love her, because i tell her all the time. I cant stop thinking about her and even when i sleep i literally dreams about ...

If its just a crush I don't want to act on it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - I'm a bit confused as to whether I like this girl or not, as I don't wish to follow suit if its just a crush. Theres at girl I work with who I've hung around with a lot more, we've even gone out with a couple a few times and the other day when I saw ...

How can I find him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I really want help on this one... So this is the beginning... In 2008 I met this guy. We talked a lot and had a lot in common. We ended up liking each other. But I think it was more like love. He wanted to be together with me, but couldn't because ...

He says I'm too much of a good friend to date me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I really wanna date this guy he says he likes me but he said I'm too much of a good friend to date because he doesn't wanna lose me. What do I do?!?!?!?!!??...

Holding onto the ex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

28 December 2009 (?) - Hello everyone, I could really use a bit of advice. I dated my first love almost two years, last year he broke it off out of the blue. For about a year we went back and forth, he couldn't seem to make up his mind as to what he wanted. To say I wa...

What does it mean in HIS eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - When a man introduces you to his childhood friends as HIS GIRL...even though we have not talked about a relationship together, but we're moving towards that; what does that mean in his eyes?...

What is his deal? I'm very confused about this situation. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - It seems like nothing is ever simple for me when it comes to guys. Last year, this guy and I became acquaintances at school. We sat at the same lunch table and sometimes we would talk to each other. We said hi to each other in the hallways every now ...

Best friend has alienated me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - when i was at school i felt like i had friend, but now i have left because i needed a job, my once best friend has alienated me, and now i feel like i have no-one in my life, i feel so lonely, i have no idea what i have done to her, what can i do?...

She has no clue that I love her so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Alright, a little description about myself. I am just a regular 19 year old guy who is basically still studying in an university with practically no work at all. I am deeply in love with a girl, my university mate for only about 1 and a half month. ...

What does a laugh mean in response to a display of affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hey everyone. I'm in need of some female opinion. Will take male opinion too if you wish. Ok long story short. I have a girl for a best friend who I am very much in love with. She knows all about this and though she says she doesn't want the ...

Getting your ex back through friendship - did it work for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi, has anyone out there ever tried to win their ex-boyfriend by playing the friend card? Staying in life as a friend and hoping things take their natural course to reconciliation? thanks...

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. ...

How bad is it to kiss just a friend?

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28 December 2009 (F) - I like him, and he likes me, but we're not dating. Will our friendship be affected by it? If damage has already been done, any advice on what to do?...

I never had any problems making friends at college. What's wrong now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - INTRO: I live with my parents because of chronic unemployment. They spent Christmas Eve and Christmas at a distanced city with our extended family and I refused to go as usual. I'm the only Christian in the family, and I'm in my thirties and still ...

I can't just get over the situation? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi, sorry to blab on but i am having some difficulties getting over this situation.. So i was on and off with this guy for about three years, our families are very close well our mothers are very good friends so he is someone that has been ar...

I like her sober, but I don't like the clingy, crazy girl she becomes when drunk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I have slept with my friend a few times now... She is cool when she is sober and I like her but when she gets really drunk she gets really crazy and clingy. I dont do clingy! I met her at the pub the other day and she was completely off her ...

Are these signs he has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I really like this guy and he is my best friend. I really wanna know how I can tell if he likes me or not. So he told me last year that he liked me two years ago when we first met. So lately he's been flirting with me and treating me like I am ...

How do I be...just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I've been friends with a guy for awhile now, he had a girlfriend of 7 months. (hes 22 I'm 20 and shes 18) we were just friends and stuff but developed feelings for each other and ended up fooling around before they broke up. (they did shortly after) ...

My bestfriend can't make up his mind if he loves me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - My best male friend told me he loved me, then the next day he told me he was unsure, i thought he said he was unsure about it because he was worried about my reaction if i loved him back, i told him how i felt; that i had strong feelings for him and ...

Should I tell him I like him? He has mentioned that he doesn’t want a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I started to like this guy I know from a university club I am involved in about 2/3 months ago. I had known him for about 6 months before that but never really thought about him in that way, even though when I first met him I thought he was ...

What does everything but sex actually mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - My best friend (a girl, but that's not alll thatrelevent) was telling me about her new boyfriend. We're very close. Anyway she told me tht her bf had said he'd do everything but sex with her. Not wanting to look stupid cos I like that this girl fee...

Am I overeacting with my friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - It's not a love question, but yesterday i got into argument w/my american friends about this issue, and was very upset w/their answer to the point that now i question if i ever had anything in comon w/them and if we should continue our friendship. W...