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writes:I dont know if to delete him.Basically we met at a festival 4 months ago, when we met we couldnt stop talking and it was dead sweet because we lost each other. And i thought id never see him again and i searched for him on facebook when i got home with just his first name and the big city he lives in and ended up finding him.We spoke everynight up til last weekend when i travelled 1:30hours up to where he lives on the train to see him.I stayed over and i didnt have sex with him, we did other stuff though (probably shouldnt have now but :( Since ive been back he hasnt spoke to me, so i questiioned him about it like 2 days ago, and now hes totally off with me. Saying he didnt speak to me becuase hes been busy over christmas... when i know he has credit and has been online. He ignored me after, and hasnt spoke to me today or yesterday/.It hurts so much to delete him, il be so upset having him not there anymore, i really thought he geuinally liked me :( and i just cant belive it because we got on so well when we met, and last weekend.Should i give him a week or two to stop being grumpy and see if he speaks?Delete him now, and if he cares he'l add me back?Or send him a mesage telling him what i think and delete him?or just leave him there and never speak again unless he does? Although it hurts me to see him online, and i wanna look at his profile.The thing is im going to university next year , near his univsiety and we've always spoke about being together, and even though hes being off with me now. I seriously cant let go of that hope of us being together becuase it felt so right, I dont know whats going on :(
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reader, jessicaxxxx  +, writes (30 December 2009):
i think you should just come out with it and tell him exacully how you feel and if he dosent like it and gets annoyed then you know he has been messing you about bt if nice to you then you know you do have a chance boys are weird they do have there little mood swing the same thing has happend to me i left him to have his own space for a few days and then told him exacully how i felt.if you say this guy is shy it could just be that he might feel he didnt please you enough and the reson he properly didnt have sex with you was because he was nervouse but seriously i think you should give him a few days and then tell him how you feel that way you know were you stand and will know if anything going to happen between you or not and if not try to get over him and move on but dont delete him because he could think you are off with him and then you could mess things up all together xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Hey, I think you should just leave him be for a while, keep him on your facebook and everything but just don't initiate any conversation. If he starts talking to you first then you'll know he wants to talk to you, where as if you question him or delete him from facebook he'll probably think you're being a bit obsessed, and this will mess things up even more. If he doesn't talk to you for a while or ever again, then you'll know he's not worth your time.
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