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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

He doesn't know I'm bi, he thinks I'm gay.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Hi Guys!, ok I'm really really worried about a few issues in my life right now. I feel as if I've screwed up majorly and really need someones advice. I'm a bisexual guy, british, but two months ago i moved out to budapest (hungary) for a year...

Why does he keep asking me these questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - this guy and i are getting to know each other.. i like him and he tells me he likes me too.. but he keeps asking me how long has it been since ive been single, if ive ever gotten pregnant before or had an abortion:( i told him my ex was carefu...

Why do I feel this way about sex?? Am I weird???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I am 20 and I've not had sex for a year and couple of months now... I've had 4 bfs.. I slept with 2... cos i loved them but they broke my heart and left me. All my friends think i should just have fun.. cos they sleep with guys like within a we...

Do you think he was attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Today I met this guy that my friend's boyfriend introduced me to. We have been talking on the [hone for about a week now and today we finally met to see each other. I swear he is so sweet it's ridiculous We had described to each other how we looked ...

One minute we're lovey dovey... next he doesn't care. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hiya. There is this boy and we have been such good friends for a couple of years. I started to fancy him about 1.5 years ago. He knows i fancy him and so does everyone else. He has just never mentioned it. When we are alone (eg. in the computer...

How do I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I was great friends with my girl friend. We studied together and I helped her in ways that no one would ever do for another person. I beleived in her. After she passed her exams she apparently decided I was not worthy of her friendship and ...

Any suggestions to help our friend live a little?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has a friend who I've known for 5 years now. Now this friend is currently 21 and has never had sex. Actually she has never had a boyfriend or even been kissed before. This is common knowledge for anyone who had met her because she's ...

Should I explain to my ex's friend why I couldn't speak to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - ok i feel like a made a big mistake and i need help realy bad. Il try to make it short me and my ex were togather for 10 months and he was the love of my life, he broke up with me a little over a couple weeks ago and me and his friend started ...

He's always maintained he is gay yet he will get drunk and mess around with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Hi guys, i really feel down and need to speak to someone. there's this guy i was mad about for years. He's a good friend of mine, but since we met he said he was interested in guys. anyway, one day he asked me if i had feelings for him and i sa...

Should I just get over it? Or should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for two years but have recently started developing feelings for my friend and i feel i need to end things. There have been a couple of drunken nights together with this friend, and he is very sweet to me...

I am in love, but she has a boyfriend and when I see them together I die inside

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - hi, i'm on love with my best friend (a girl) i mean want whats best for her love not just the humdrum. but she has a boyfriend whos. well. bound to get her into trouble. they make a nice couple and all but everytime i see him with her (always) i ...

Now that we are FWB, he is no longer in love with me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Hi i jus need advice/opinions plz no judgement. I have a fwb and weve known eachother for awhile (graduated from high school together) and he told me that he used to think he was in love with me in high school. so now that were fwb he said he loves ...

Does my ex friend stare at me because she's jealous?

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11 December 2009 (F) - Why does she do this? My ex best friend will stare at me when I'm not looking, then I'll turn around (not on purpose just turning around) and catch her and she'll turn around real fast. She always looks at me, but really when I'm with my new frie...

How do I win her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Well, there is this girl I like. She has been dating this other guy for a year and plans on getting married to him. Well, she likes me to. She hates it when other guys flirt with her however, when I flirt with her, she likes it. She also flirts back ...

My friend is a maneater and now she really likes the guy I'm seeing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have a friend (lets call her gemma) and she is a maneater ! She has a boyfriend but yet wouldn't pass if anything better came along. She is getting a reputation for herself but that isn't what bothers me as it is her life... however, my pr...

I like him but he used to be my best friend's boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - This is kind of lengthy.. but please read and help.. So recently I just started talking to an old guy friend of mine. He was seriously one of my best friends; I felt so comfortable around him, we were into the same kind of music, movies, etc. I a...

Why has he gone cold on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have currently known and have been friends with a guy for around 2 months now and i really like him. I have been round to his house a few times and shared passionate kisses. I really like this guy and want to be his girlfriend... his was really...

I really am falling for him but it's so complicated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - omg i dont know whats happened to me i came out of a bad relationship 8 months ago-he left me financially crippled etc-used me for what he could get so no way am i looking for anyone-but this guy started at my work a month ago and we have worked t...