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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

My friend thinks the boy I like is a creep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster says they are in 7th grade, but age is 19. I like this boy in seventh grade that always hangs out with me in the morning. One of my friends thinks he's a creep, and always tells him to go away. How do I ask him out? And how do I...

I'm stuck in the middle of my feuding friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - So me and my group of friends are having huge difficulties. We are 6 girls and last year we were a tight group but this year is all weird. I know people change but its all drama shit. My bff elizabeth started telling some pretty shitty lies where ...

How to say "you're ok but I don't fancy you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody, Apparently a woman I have recently met through a female friend "likes me". Although I don't know how much, she is the same age as me (46). I have spoken to her a couple of times and she seems OK and looks like she likes a laugh an...

I don't want him to end up resenting me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Willing to break up with his girlfriend for me, but, I don't want him to end up resenting me if things don't work out how he plans between the two of us (he's a good friend and I'd hate to lose that). We have such a good time together, doing ...

Am I being unreasonable not wanting them to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys! Well basically I met up with an old friend as he was tutoring me for my end of year exams. We got pretty close and have ended up sort of seeing each other. Well we act like a couple, but were not officially going out.. I guess were still ...

His girlfriends says I have to stop texting him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - So I have this guy friend who I'm pretty close with and we always find ourselves texting each other hours at a time. The problem is his girlfriend texted me last week not asking me but telling me that I'm not allowed to text him... at all. Is s...

I was planning to lose virginity to my b/f when my male friend kissed me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

2 December 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now and feel that we are ready to have sex. We are both virgins and believe that you should only have sex with someone you love. The date was set for last night. He tried to make it really ...

I am bisexual and I have a crush on another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Ok here it goes, I have a massive crush on another girl who is in my drama class. She is gorgeous and wish I could tell her. However I think she is straight, don't talk to her often and don't want to make a big fool of myself if I do tell her and ...

We are just friends to him. If I tell him, I'm scared it will spoil everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Hiya, i really really need your help on this one. There is this boy and he has been my friend now for like 2 years, but there is one slight problem, I have fancied him all along but just never told him. About 1 month ago we had just become friends ...

I saw my best friend and my boyfriend getting it on together!!! What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. my best friend we were so close, we did everything together, even having bath together, she was like a sister to me, i felt so comfortable with her. and my best friend and boyfriend were friends from when ...

What can I do to help Harry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - hi it's not really a love question but i hope you can help anyway. My friend *harry is being framed by this girl i used to be friends with *ellie. according to ellie, harry asked her for a topless photo of her over msn. she's told the police a...

Help! Where did it all go wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I am in love with the sweetest kindest man. He knows I am smitten with him. We sms each other ever other day. I see him at my work as he does consulting for us for the last year. He is 2 years younger then I (42) am. He is obese (150kg) and I am ...

Ex troubles!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I am in a good relationship with a boy. I have recently spilt with one of his friends, before I started seeing him. I love my boyfriend and am really happy, but my ex is ignoring me and I just want to be friends with him. He is not only ig...

Should I keep chasing this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone :) I like a girl in my workplace, who is 8 years older than me. One day, in a conversation, she said she can't accept a guy younger than her as bf. Reason, girl gets old faster than guys do. Guess she knows I like her lol. Since sh...

I want a friend to be MORE than just a friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for nearly 2 years. We have become close friends but now I know that I like her more than just a friend. She has never given me the impression that she wants to be more than friends but she is single currently. We ...

I lied to my girlfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - I met a girl at work about 6 months ago and my friend told her i was in the military cause she liked military guys.... we didnt start hanging out or talking till 3 months after that and like an idiot i kept up with the lie. we started dating and ...

I don't want to rush things and mess this up. What do I do next?

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2 December 2009 (M) - Hi About a year ago I first set my eyes on this fantastic girl. I gradually became friends with her (through other friends) and I started to develop feelings for her. The problem was her and my friend were in that stage where they were about...

I am totally in love with a man who will not love me back.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - There's this guy I cannot get over. He is amazing and charismatic and I just can't get him out of my mind. Sometimes I hate his guts and other times I swear that he's going to be mine. It's been more than a year now and I'm stuck, I really don't ...

I am marrying one man, while pining for another

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I'm not sure I know how to go about explaining myself and I'm sorry for making this too lengthy but it is a long story. Here it goes: Before you start there are a few things you need to know about me:1) I am from a culture where family is everyt...

We were doing great, until I said I liked him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - We never met, we talked for hours, he was clearly intersted until i told him i liked him, and now he doesnt wanna talk to me, he told me he got freaked out and scared, that hes not ready for that (that hes not as mature as me) and that hes not as ...