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writes:I had a date tonight w/ this guy but had canceled before.So despite the fact I had a killer migraine tonight - We got together (i didnt want to cancel again n come off as a flake).I had an obligation to be a des. driver for a friend later in the night.Meanwhile this guy and I had a pretty good time minus us not feeling well/being tired.I had to pick up my friend and dropping my date off was out of the way - so I brought my date w/ me.Normally my friend isn't a bad drunk but tonight she was on her WORST behavior.I was mortified.I apologized.He reassured me it was fine and kept hugging me/rubbing my back etc the rest of the night.I made sure she got to her door and on my way back to the car - my date got out of the car and randomly kissed me.We made out. and chatted on the way home.dropped him off.He says he wants to hang out again..but i feel soo embarrassed that I find it hard to believe.He said that we should hang again, that's if I want to.I told him I do but im not sure it was convincing( he made a face like he didn't believe me).The embarrassment is overwhelming and therefore I wasn't sure how he really felt. I sent him a msg saying that I did have a good time, whether or not it was obvious and he said he did too and we txted for a bit. All of it seemed positive.I just felt completely stupid/horrible tonight.I know I shouldn't have picked up my friend - kinda regret that...Do you think he really wants to hang again or was it just bs? I know only time will tell but.. just curious.
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reader, pril +, writes (30 December 2009):
Ok claim down. I'm sure ur friend didn't bother him cause his friends have acted the same. Men act like that to when they r drunk so I'm sure he has seen his friends like that. So he is trueful it is ok ur friend was like that. He want to see u not ur friend so it doesn't matter how she acted. He kissed u he texted u back. So go for it. I'm sure u to can laugh about ur friend and move on. He prob hasn't even thought twice about how she acted.
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (30 December 2009):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou.I hope so. :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 December 2009):
He kissed you, he talked to you, he told you he wanted to see you again, he texted you back when you texted him, he was understanding about your friend and tried to reassure you. Yes he likes you, yes he wants to see you again. Try calling him! :) And good luck.
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