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Just friends when he thinks the woman is sexy?

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Question - (31 December 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *oowant writes:

Can a male and female just be friends if he thinks the women is sexy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011):

Try to get him drunk(but not too drunk)and be alone with him.Then you'll know the answer.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010):

Interesting question..

MOST of the time, the guy is going to want more. Even if he is in a relationship. If he gets the chance, he will take action.

But don't take what I said the wrong way; guys aren't always sexual monsters who are your friend because they have hopes for more. The attractiveness of the girl can just make his side of the relationship a lot harder for him to handle, (if she doesn't feel the same way back) It can be a very heartbreaking thing for guys. Sympathize with him, and don't make him feel bad. It's not his fault he has the feelings for you, and it's not your fault you don't have feelings for him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

... Nope.. Sooner or later something will happen.. He just needs an opportunity..

xXx

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (1 January 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntThinks she is sexy, or is attracted to her sexually?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010):

Agree- if he's the type to wonder, or not in a relationship the answer is NO, he'll want more than friendship.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (1 January 2010):

Not My Name agony auntNope, sooner or later, even if it takes years, someone will most likely jump someone. The most likely outcome to that is that they will either get it on and move beyond 'just friends', or it will ruin the friendship entirely.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010):

You don't give men much credit do you?

We are not mindless drones. Don;t let the actions of a few of my less scrutable counterparts cloud your judgement.

Just because a man thinks a woman is attractive, it doesn't mean he suddenly loses the ability to know right from wrong. Sometimes, regardless of how attractive someone is, a friendship can stay that way between sexes.

By assuming and believeing it isn;t true you simply make it true.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2009):

She's a bit more than a friend. If he could have sex with her, he would.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009):

Unless the guy is in a relationship already, he would likely have sex with her if given the chance.

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