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writes:I'm a bit confused as to whether I like this girl or not, as I don't wish to follow suit if its just a crush. Theres at girl I work with who I've hung around with a lot more, we've even gone out with a couple a few times and the other day when I saw her I remember being shocked at the feeling that came over me and how happy I was. But, I am unsure if she thinks the same, and do not want to suggest it if its just me wanting somebody for a relationship. She's not at all like the normal girl I attract, yet I fear that im falling for her for no reason at all, and i guess in reality i might be scared that shes not falling for me , im so confused with my own thoughts and feelings. Any help please? xx
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (29 December 2009):
 Or, you could try going out with her two or three more times, and see how it goes. Maybe go bowling; to lunch then a movie or whatever else you think you might both enjoy.
That way you'll get to know something about what interests her (and vice versa)and will have an opportunity by talking to get to know her better. Take it slowly. Hopefully you will then have a better idea of whether this friendship is one you want to pursue or not. Going on a couple more dates doesn't commit either of you to anything......
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reader, Blackqueen +, writes (29 December 2009):
Here's an easy way not to look desperate or a hopeless romantic...ask her where are we at in are relationship? Sometimes it can be nerve racking to express how you feel and ask another how they feel about you and where your at in your relationship! What's the worst that can happen. I'm sure if she didn't like you she wouldn't have went out with you! Your just a little paranoid. I hope it works out for the best what ever happens between you two! =D
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