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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

We broke up 3 months ago and he still isn't ready to be friends

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago--- why isnt he ready to be friends..? im reallly in love with him still. and im over the whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing but i really wana be friends with him and he wont let me in.. he says it hurts too ...

A conversation with a friend gives me more questions than answers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hello, One of by best mates is a girl, we are very close. We finished school early today as it is the last day of term and we decided to go on a walk together. it was snowing so we had alot of fun. after a while of talking we randomly started ...

I thought everything was going well, until I heard them laughing about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My best mate sleeps around and knows loads of guys, everyone wanting to be with her. She's overweight, spotty and generally greasy. She's taken guys off of me and every guy I've liked she's flirted with until they go to her instead. This seems to ...

My friend lied to me now I don't want to trust her again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - So I trusted my friend but she lied to me. I feel stupid because I can not believe I couldn't see through her. I believed everything she told me - yes everything. Now I feel upset, hurt and very angry. The lie was small but still hurtful. She kept ...

It hurts me when he makes up with g/f and then I don't hear from him for days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I'm so upset. My best guy friend and I talk all the time, and he's in a rough spot with his girlfriend right now so I've pretty much become his crutch for the time being. I'm the person he goes to to talk when his girlfriend is mad or whatever. I ...

My guy wants to keep our relationship a secret!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - How do i make my guy be more romantic?he never even hugs me when we are in public..i mean he never asks me out anywhere..nor does he wanna tell his friends about us! how can i make this happen without directly forcing him to tell his friends!i feel ...

Can you stay friends with an abusive ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I was in an abusive relationship (physically and emotionally) for about a year. I was very much in love with him and would make excuses for him, but also did not want to suffer abuse anymore. I learned that he had also abused his other ex's in the ...

I'm friends with a guy at work but I feel there is more in the air, please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - im friends with a guy at work and because hes new ive been helping him a lot with the paperwork etc so he calls me a lot. im probably being paranoid but the last two nights ive been on the phone to him for at least 2 hours. the weird thing is i fin...

My question is: why is it so hard for us to talk about making it official?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Okay so let me tell you a little bit about my situation..so thrs this guys that ive known for a while but we've decided to be FWB...so far its been great no strings attatched rite?!...well im starting to catch feelings for him..and i know he is too ...

I thought she was starting to like me, but turns out she had heard about my depression...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - I've been suffering from depression and was seeking help and support from a friend of mine. I have second friend who i have feelings for, but she doesn't feel the same way. She never emails me first, but when I send her friendly stuff every once...

I put my life on hold but now I want to get it back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a huge problem and I would appreciate some much needed helpful advice and an insight into what the heck is going on. I'm 21 years old I had a very troubling past but got my life on track. My partner and I got together two years ago. Just ...

Still lost with another twist...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - beating my brain and heart here. here is where my 1st was: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-help-me-i-feel-i-am.html one of my best friends has now confess to me that she has always had feelings for me. I often though many times what ...