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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is she leading me on? Or confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Hello, I recently have been hanging out with this girl on whom I am very interested in. She flirts with me constantly (touches me, playfully slaps me, she even sort of bit my shoulder). She gives me her number at work and I told her I'll call he...

Best Friend is blowing hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My best friend of 2 and half years told me he loved me a few weeks ago and i was very happy and told him how i felt about him in return. Later on in the conversation he then said he was unsure of his feelings for me and didn't want to say anym...

He worries I wont 'get over him' so we cant even be friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - long story short, long distance thing, never met, but knew eachother from a friend, talked for 4-5 months (not every day) but wen we did talk it would be for 6 hours straight (like once a wk) and maybe a few minutes everyday) Got along real well, ...

We were going great guns but now she has cooled off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Ok, i am 25 male and the girl i met this 20 yr old girl about a month ago rite before leaving school for the thanksgiving holidays. We share a muttual freind which is also a girl. the first time we met we talked at my apt for a couple hours and...

Do I just ask him where it's going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and have been single for 4 months now. I've been getting on quite well with a guy who used to work with me, we kept in touch when he was made redundant but I'm not sure where things will go. He has been single for 4-5 months too, he had a bad ...

First Kiss - Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I really liked a boy and he asked me out and for some reason I said no but he asked me again and I said yes. We've only been going out for a week but I feel pressured to kiss him, I want to and so does he but he is willing to take things at my pace. ...

Help!!! I love them BOTH!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - hi everyone i no its sounds stupid but i love 2 boys but i can never summon up the courage to ask either out but something that i have constantly do is listen to songs and think "god, i wish i could sing this to them" because they say all i want to ...

I adore him but he won't ever know and it's killing me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I'm in a horrible situation - not bad compared to most people's problems but it's horrible. I just need an outsiders perspective before I continue making a fool of myself. I'm insanely in love with my friend. He doesn't know how I feel. He's ge...

My best friend isn't celebrating Christmas or attending birthday parties anymore. I would like for her to make one exception for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I hope you can help me out with a friend of mine. Me and her have been best friends for 8 years. Her dad is a jehovah's witness and over the years she has gradually become one herself. Just a few months ago she told me she won't be celebrat...

I need some feedback about a questionable friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Re submitt question on my internet friend, I found this person on a looking for friends site , that was all i wanted just someone to e mail.I retired six months ago so i was bored i just needed someone to talk to. Nothing sexual i just wanted t...

How do I tell my friend to stop flirting with my boyfriend?

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16 December 2009 (F) - my best friend is always firlting with my boyfriend that i have been dating for a while and i dont know how to tell her cause i dont want to lose her as i did before and she means everything to me but i don't know what to say to her help meeeeeee...

I'm a born again Christian. How to prevent the relationship while keeping the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My name is Jerusalem, i'm 24 born again christain and i am not allowed to be in a realtionship and i met this gay his very nice person, he is realy nice to me. when we met I told him that i can't be in a relationship because i realy want to be a ...

I feel very protective of this man who has been married twice and already in another relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - omg i dont know whats happened to me i came out of a bad relationship 8 months ago-he left me financially crippled etc-used me for what he could get so no way am i looking for anyone-but this guy started at my work a month ago and we have worked t...

We are happy, our mothers are happy but what will the wife say when she finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Had a wonderful friend in high school, I knew he was in love with me but I just wanted to be friends, 4 years after graduation he comes back into my life,by then I am a young single mother to a 1 year old son and he said he would be honored if I ...

My b/f's party animal mate is back in town

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating awhile ago,and before we did, he was a party animal. His best friend and him would go party almost every night, and this was when we were in the first stages of our relationship, so it wasn't a big deal to me. His ...

I called it quits but now want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him ...

I feel devalued by my friend

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16 December 2009 (?) - I have this friend and I tell her she's wonderful and a great friend when she is feeling down or depressed. But as soon as someone else, someone that means nothing tells her what I have been saying all along all of a sudden that person is t...

Is he playing head games because he's afraid of getting hurt?

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16 December 2009 (F) - This guy knows I like him, and since fall qtr started he's been showing interest towards me and I felt it getting stronger but something happened and I'm not sure what I did wrong..because he stopped and started to kind of ignore me, he might have ...

What's going on with this girl?

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16 December 2009 (M) - so Im confused of what actually is goin on here. im goin to try to explain this the best I can. at the place I work this girl started about a couple months ago. we became pretty much immediate friends. she has a boyfriend. we got pretty close over ...

Who should I believe, my dream guy or everyone else?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy a couple weeks ago and just the first time I layed my eyes on him it just felt right and like I knew I wanted to be with him more than anything.. He's smart, sweet, incredibly sexy, ect(pretty much everything I want in a guy).. ...