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anonymous
writes:I have recently fallen out with a female friend. I've known her for around 8 months. I did like her as something more, but she rejected me. Since, it's been a bit difficult being friends, but it was working out. We got on great the last times we met, but last weekend, I got in a bad mood and she noticed, and said I was too often in a bad mood. We then talked about it, how I can't get a job during this recession and my mother's ill health. I also said it was about how I felt I could get on better with her. I had even bought her a Christmas present and gave it to her that night. It is all strange as we didn't really fall out so badly. But the next day I sent a text message about my mood, and she just got angry, saying I talk about the same things over and over and that she didn't want to meet, or even speak to me again! I then over the next couple of days, sent lots of text messages, as she would not answer my calls. I realise this was a mistake now of course, and have stopped doing that. I've had bad luck this year with girls just ignoring me when it suits them, and really don't want it to happen again. She says that she tried to be my friend but can't understand me. Trouble is now I can't speak to her even to explain. What is my best course of action now? I have just considered sending her a Happy new year text tonight, but other than that I don't know how long I should wait before trying to contact her. She is a sensitive girl. She is actually dating someone now, and I wonder if this was some reason she didn't want to talk to me.What would be the best course of action?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): But simply we are friends and hardly even fell out, surely men and women can be friends
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 I'd move on if I were you. She's clearly decided that she doesn't want you in her life and you have no choice but to accept that.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 December 2009):
There is a very high chance that now she is dating someone she has decided to move on. You need to move on too. You're too hung up on her, and it's not healthy.
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