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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Smitten with the Bartender...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - Last night, Sunday, I went on a bruiser of a first date and ended up hitting it off with the bartender much more so than my date. The joint was almost empty so we were all able to make good conversation about music, movies, books, school, the works. ...

Why won't he reply to my texts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - There is this guy that I like and he likes me too. A couple days ago we exchanged phone numbers. Now he wont even text me. The first day I texted him and he replied. The next day I texted him and he never replied.... But I don't get why he has not ...

What should I do? Just be his friend with no benefits, leave him alone...? What?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've been hooking up with this guy for the past 7 years on and off. Last year I found out he had a kid. I did the math that sas in one of our 'on' moments. I still love him but it hurts still after all this time. Help! What should I do? Just be his ...

If I break up with my girlfriend I'm afraid I will have no one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have a girlfriend that I love. We have our good and bad times. We go to school and do everything together but now I think I should see other people because I'm not sure if she makes me happy as much as I make her happy. If I break up with he...

Why isn't he texting me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and this lad have been texting each other loads lately, almost everyday and sometimes even until the early hours of the morning! We've flirted loads and told each other private things. We've even talked about sex and things but he hasn't text ...

He wants to marry me but I want to wait... Opinions please, what would YOU do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just got back together because I was missing him, we been together for two years. I know he loves me but when he drinks (which is like once a month) he don't know how to handle his self so I have to make him leave my house ...

Should I be her friend? She broke my heart...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - So I recently split up with my girlfriend. Ths split was mutual..i guess.? We had been going out for over a year and a half and the realtionship was a long distance one. We were great together, everything was perfect. We would see each other every ...

My best friend (who is 14) has started smoking????? help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Well...... my friend smokes. Not a pack a day but every time she is depressed or she is in trouble she heads for the ciggarette. I don't know what to do. She doesn't understand that the only reason I'm nagging her is because I loe her as a friend ...

I fancy my friend, but my best friend is in love with him.

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31 March 2008 (F) - I fancy my friend, but my best friend is in love with him. What do I do. I can't just go after him and do that to her. If she only fancied him I wouldn't have minded but she is really in love with him. What do I do - leave it or go after him?...

How can I get talking to him again without seeming too flirty and desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Recently I met this real charming guy, he seems like a nice guy and I want to know him better, when he tries talking to me I kinda avoid him, I don't know why I do that.. now he has stopped trying, how can I get talking to this guy again without ...

How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie on guys or sit on their knee. I am very shy so this can help a guy know I like them, cause I am too shy 2 say it. How else can I flirt?...

Friend and boyfriend problems... help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi, ok so my problems quite a big one and its got lots of different things in one, so please carry on reading thanks! I'll start with me and my boyfriend. He means the world to me I love him to bits. The thing is I know I'm too young so please d...

Should I sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Ok, so my problem is with my mate, who is a boy. We've known each other for around 18 months and we really do get on well. Recently we've been flirting, texting each other loads, now we've got on to discussing sex. He wants us sleep together even ...

He's been so good to me since my boyfriend died and I've fallen head over heels for him, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - My boyfriend died last August when I was 3 months pregnant and since I was 5 months pregnant I have been living with his best friend. He has been doing everything that my boyfriend should have been doing like coming to scans with me, decorating t...

Perhaps losing contact with my EX would be a bad thing after all, after I already demanded it and had it realised? Any perspectives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hi. I asked this question recently, but I received only one answer, when I'd hoped for more: Contact with my ex appears to be cut, as I wanted... But now I'm having doubts that I'm doing the right thing. What do you think? If you don't know of mi...

I'm scared that history will repeat itself (my previous partner has cheated with my best friend!) What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi everybody. About 8 years ago i split up with my long term partner after finding out he was seeing my best mate. Over the following years I have found I cannot trust men. I have been with my current partner for 6 months and I love this man...

How can I avoid being so eager towards him, so ready to "fall in love" and experience all that goes with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hey aunts, I've got guy troubles again. It's nothing too serious, but I find I'm getting a little down about it. I've been sort of seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We go places together, hang out, and sometimes make out. Nothing is o...

She keeps cheating on me, how can ever trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Community, I need advice. I have been dating my g/f for 9 months now. Through out the relationship a lot has happened. I am no longer able to conduct my thoughts in a proper manner. I constantly think she is seeing someone now. It all beg...

Am I in her league, or just stuck in the "friend zone"...and how can I get this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hi there, my question is about this girl who is absoluteley amazing in my mind, and I don't know if I'm in her league, or if I'm stuck in the "friend zone". I don't know if I'm in her league because she is beautiful, smart and funny, I think I migh...

Is she using me as a rebound - in case her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hello, I am an 18 year old male who was asked to a prom by a girl who does not go to my school. There was a period where we were quite interested in each other and talked often. However she stopped speaking with me and ignored my phone calls when...

My ex is blowing hot and cold. I'm well confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi guys, some male behaviour to decode here! My ex fiance and I cohabited for 2 years until we split, we fell out badly and didn't speak. We are now reconciled after 4 years of N/C. He did get in contact two years ago but it was brief, stra...

My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am...

Could I have been that bad in bed, that he didn't want sex with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - A couple weeks ago, me and a guy friend slept together. We met through a mutual friend but we've only known eachother a few months, it's not like we're really close or know eachother realy well. Well i was attracted to him, and he seemed into me, ...

Is he just being polite with me or does he care a little?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm not saying like if romantic, but what would you think if you meet a guy then keep emailing (of course you're the one interested) and he replies right back at you, even though you met shortly, he send you pictures of him, if you tell him you're ...

I just don't know how to tell her how I really feel without being awkward about it or even worse, making our friendship awkward.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm stuck in a pretty complicated situation right now. I've been very close friends with this girl for over 3 years now, we hook up somewhat frequently and we're just extremely close friends in general. However, we haven't officially dated ...

I think he likes my friend more than me but I'm in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I made a friend in 6th grade. He's a guy. I'm a girl. We were friends, but didn't hang out much. Then, in the summer I went to the beach. He was there. We hung out that day. I realized I liked him a lot. I told no one. My friend f...

Best friend - deleted from life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi Me and my best friend had sex on many occasions and then we decided to stop and he even told me to I could join this forum he's a memeber of, which I did since I was into the same music as him, then all of a sudden about 3 weeks ago he say...

Friend and Boy Problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I like this boy and his sister says he likes me but I think my friend called him up and asked him out. His mom is going to be my softball coach and he is going to help so I was going to ask him out during one of our pratices but if my friend asked ...

Do you think he likes to flirt with me or is it just normal conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I just came from a trip a week ago from Europe and this guy with whom I have a crush, told me before I left that he knows I would enjoy my trip but just don't have too much fun! He ended the message saying to take care and I'll talk with you soon...

This sounds so weird, I'm scared I'm cracking up!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - This sounds so weird, I'm scared I'm cracking up!!! I'm obsessed with lookin at pics of my ex's ex on her web page!! I'm no longer with my ex, I don't even like him no more, but I keep going to his ex (whom he was with for 4 years) page and staring ...

How do I handle my first date with him? Is it good to be cautious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I am 17 and this lad has asked me to go on a "date" with him, I'm not completely sure of how I feel as I tend to be too safe with these situations to stop myself being hurt as has happened before, he is a really nice guy and I have never thought of ...

Do you feel she's a keeper? Someone who can mother my kids and raise a family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - hi ! I met this sweet christian girl on the internet from a different country last May and by Sept we realized that we were madly into each other, though we never have never met till date ! . It was decided that she would come over to my city and w...

Is cuddling with another guy while watching a movie (minus the kissing or eye-gazing, more like just laying together) cheating if you're in a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Is cuddling with another guy while watching a movie (minus the kissing or eye-gazing, more like just laying together) cheating if you're in a relationship?...

Should I contact my ex to tell him I want us to remain friends?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My bf broke up with me 1 week ago and he said he really wanted to stay friends. He said he still liked me a lot but we just arent 'meant to be'. I guess it's true because we both wanted different things out of a relationship so it wasn't really ...

He's my best friend, but his girlfriend is extremely jealous of our friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My best friend *who is a guy and i'm a girl* of 17 years has had a girlfriend for the past 5 years. Everytime my best friend hangs out with me or calls me, she throws a hissy fit. It's gotten so bad to the point where she is accusing him and puts...

I'm single, he's married, could I get in to trouble for persuing our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Hi, almost a year ago something very peculiar happened to me. I met this guy who's military and had 2 encounters with him (not sexual, pure business) then he left a week after that. On the second encounter I noticed he liked me and vice versa, ...

I'm single and he's married, is it possible to be 'just friends'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Can a man and woman be friends? He is married, I am single. We were friends in college, ran into one another, and I am not sure if a friendship is appropriate. I feel I can be friends without complication, but can a man? Do they seek friendship f...

Do you think a guy who's sending pictures of himself is doing it to be polite or why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - We met earlier, as friends and it's some time now that I don't see him, and he recently send me a pic of him in his uniform (GI) looking nice.... Do you think a guy who just wants to be polite would do that. He says he often remembers me. We are ...

It just seems like I have a magnet and always find the married woman.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Why does this always seem to happen to me. I'm a nice single 26 year old guy, I don't date much and when I do go out to meet people I end up talking to the married woman who's girlfriends dragged along to have some fun. I have several good married ...

I keep having this strong urge to just cuddle with him... is this considered cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for close to 3 years now. We are in love, our relationship is practically flawless and we are still very much attracted to each other. However I find one of our guy friends attractive. One thing for sure is that ...

I do like him but I'm quite shy too, I need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I see a bloke every week where he works. A couple of months ago, I noticed him looking at me.(staring). He does this every week and when he's talking to his work mate, he continues to stare at me. I think he likes me. I asked him a question ...

What advice should I tell my friend about his deployment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I have a friend who's military married to another military, and we mainly keep in touch by email. The other day he send me a note saying he's being deployed soon and that is his third trip in his 4 year marriage and that he'll miss his anniversary ...

Teachers are only human too...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 March 2008 (?) - I just want to get on thing straight, why whenever someone claims they are in love with their teacher people say it's only sexual attraction, okay I understand in some cases it's like that but what if the teacher and student really fall in love, I ...

He swears he didn't rape her, do I believe him...?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - a friend of mine has recently been summoned to court because a girl is pressing rape charges against him. supposedly he raped her at a party a few weeks ago, I was at the party and I don't remember seeing anything but he swears to god that he didn't ...

What do you think his answer means, Is it a rejection or how should I take it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - This guy is going on a deployment, and I asked If I could write him while away, bcuz his email account will change and I said I'm a silly girl who cares about him and want 2 stay in touch... He Thanked me and said: "I'll be very busy through the...

I just want to be accepted by them...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Ugh, this is so unfair. Bascially I'm 16 and I'm not a loser or anything. I do have friends and I'm socially accepted. I just don't hangout with anyone much. whyyyyyyy?? I try to initiate a time where we can hangout but really it doesn't ...

I want to be with him but we keep fighting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Please HELP! I posted before, I'm doing it again, I've know Rahul for just over 2 months. We began chatting via mxit, and our conversations went well until a Monday morning 4 weeks ago, I was overwhelmed by emotion and I told him Ii liked him, just ...

Am I being used or does he really like me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - well am 16 and recently guys have started noticing me. I've had 4 boyfriends in the last 6 months or so but theres always been one thats special to me..hes 17 and has a kid but the problem is am still a virgin..we've messed around alot and since we ...

Is it that he likes me or is he just being polite?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I'm asking because for me, I don´t know, but I work on sales so I met this GI on a delivery I made, and at 1st glance he was very cocky and not as nice but then he started to be friendly.. Then a week later I had to meet him and he was completely ...

I find it hard/impossible to read girls and whether they want to go further with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I’m 22 (almost 23)year old male and I’ve never had a long-term relationship, I’ve had a couple of flings and far too many one night stands (with boys and girls) but nothing ever fruitful comes of it. I define myself as bisexual, but am perhaps more ...