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writes:This guy is going on a deployment, and I asked If I could write him while away, bcuz his email account will change and I said I'm a silly girl who cares about him and want 2 stay in touch...He Thanked me and said: "I'll be very busy through the first part of May, but if I get a chance I'll send you an email. I will be back to work soon enough and will definitely be in touch."How should I take it really, did he got the idea? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Hi there,
Well, you made it quite clear to him that you liked him. lol And what a nice thing for you to offer to do -writing him. I think our brave military boys do need support and plenty of positive, happy news from home, when they go on deployment. He knows you like him. And I bet, he felt complimented. I don't know about where this fellow is going and what his military duties will involve-but I think in his answer to your comment--he was saying rather politely, that he does not really want to give some girl at home, high hopes about beginning a relationship with him, yet. Why? Because he's in the military and sometimes, these fellows are venture into pretty, volatile places and do some pretty high risk stuff.
So Ithink his comment, "I will be back to work soon enough and will definitely be in touch." was his way of saying "wait until I contact you". So don't be saddened by this, it could just mean he wants to wait until he's home and back to his regular life, before involving himself in anyone's life.
Why don't you just bide your time and when he comes back home to work, give him a nice, lovely, fun note, asking him how he's doing. What can that hurt? In the meanwhile, focus on your own happy life, socialize with your other friends and just have a good time in your life. I wish you the very best, and I hope you and he can have a great chance to get to know each other much better, when he gets home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): He seems to like you and wants to talk to you . He's going to busy in may but ASAP he will talk to you . He seems to liek you. I think he got the idea that you like him too.
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