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writes:My best friend *who is a guy and i'm a girl* of 17 years has had a girlfriend for the past 5 years. Everytime my best friend hangs out with me or calls me, she throws a hissy fit. It's gotten so bad to the point where she is accusing him and puts him on the chopping block, so to speak. He's fed up and doesn't know what to do. I want to give him the best advice possible. What do I say to help him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): umm he shouldnt have a friend as a girl sry the only bvest friend as a girl should be his girlfriend sorry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Does she know you well? Does she know how you and her boyfriend interact together? Are you flirty with him in front of her or vice versa? Is it possible that he's ever made any inappropriate comments about you to her?
All I can suggest is getting to know her well. If you are best friends with her partner then you are going to need to get along with her as well.
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Well you have been friends with this fella a long time, make friends and be genuine about it with his g/f. There is no reason why you can't all get on together. If she has a problem with it there is not much you can do, surely she does not expect him to give up one of his close friends? just be friendly to her, hopefully in time she will realise you are no threat.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 You are like a thorn in her side.
There is no recourse except to pull the thorn out of her.
Whatever you tell him will not work.
Imagine the situation in the reverse.
How would you feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Kiss HER ass. If you two are REALLY just friends - befriend her as well. Make her secure. Actually, make her just love you to pieces. He will thank you for it.
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