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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My friend of 20 just got engaged to a 68-year-old. What problems might they expect?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am a 23 year old girl and my friend is 20 years old. She told me she has recently got engaged to a 68-year-old man she met in a pub - he is the owner of it, and that he is a decent person, was what she told me. She asked me what problems w...

Friends are hard to come by now that I'm in uni. What can I do to meet more people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hello, I am 19 years old female, who is going to college full time and working part time. Since I graduated high school, I have lost contact with ALL of my friends. I have tried to join clubs at my college to meet some new people, but that failed. ...

One of my Dad's friend's sexually molested me while I was sleeping-not sure if my parents will believe me. What should I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - please help.i dont know who to ask about this...my parents often have big parties with many of their friends. its always very "uppity" and full of people i cant stand. everyones always drinking, and quite often since there are many spare rooms in my ...

My friend was a victim of sexual abuse. I want to do whatever I can to help her cope...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hey well, last week wasn't a good week for me and I need your help. I found my best friend! I mean I'm really close with her family and everything and her father was having sex with her and her fourteen year old little sister. By the way, she's fi...

I was his student, and now that training's over, I misss him! Do I get in touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6870 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - Do you follow your heart or your head? I am the student and he's the trainer, I'm older and have had training classes in his room which I paid for, during which time he would recive phone calls from other females they weren't business phone c...

Haven't told her how I feel, and now she and her boyfriend are about to have sex. Anything I can do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6870 days ago

29 January 2006 (M) - Hey, I really really like this chick and I haven't really gathered the courage to tell her how I feel. I think she feels the same way. I found out recently she and her new boyfriend are going to have sex! Should I just let my feelings slip away or ...

Health prevents me doing as much work with the horse as I want to, but my friend thinks I'm just lazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6871 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Hi there! This is a friend problem rather then bf. I have been sharing a horse with one of my friends. This is like my dream come true. I can't afford a horse so I give her £20 a week to cover bits and bobs. I have been helping her since Marc...

If my friend really has a brain tumour, wouldn't drinking cause complications?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I have a female friend who claims to have a brain tumour; however last night she was getting completely off it. Can alcohol cause complications if you have a brain tumour? thanxs...

Is this guy putting the moves on me...or just being nice to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - A male acquaintance of mine, he has flirted with me. But he wears a wedding ring. He has touched me as well. On the arm, occassionally a stroke on my back Now he works in this place i am a customer there, sometimes when our works canteen is clo...

I want more than friendship with my bestfriend...but she has someone else...should I risk the friendship and tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - Me and my best friend are real close. I want to be more than just friends with her, and I think she might feel the same way. The problem is that she is already goin with someone and I don't know if I want to risk messing up our relationship as ...

My husband chooses his friends over me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6865 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been with my husband for 6 years and married for one year. I love my husband and he loves me. We have lots of friends and everyone gets along really well. However my husband seems to have four other guy friends, that I can't get along ...

My ex and I are best friends, but I'd rather we were back together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - Help me get back with my ex? We were engaged and between everything broke up 4 times. She only wanted friendship then and I am her best friend now. Is friendship the kiss of death? I love her so much but she says she loves me too, but isn't "in ...

I fancy a friend and I can't have her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6872 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - I really fancy one of my friends. I dont know how to tell her although she knows im bisexual. It hurts that i cant have her and im getting really upset. What shall i do?...

I have a bf but this other guy keep pressuring me for sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid: I have a serious problem with my guy friend who is constantly asking me for sexual favors. I told him no everytime he ask and he doesnt seem to get the point that I have a bf and I WONT AND WILL NOT CHEAT ON HIM!!! My concern is t...

I can't talk to people and I have no friends! Is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem! I can't talk to people at all. I have no friends, NO FRIENDS! and I don't know how to make any. I've had friends, but since me and my boyfriend got together, it's been me and him every day. I love every day and can never wait ...

If we start dating..do I risk losing his friendship if it doesn't pan out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6854 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I like this guy and he is really easy to talk to and we get on really well but we don't see each other very often. I have a ball coming up and he has helped me out with stuff for it and I was going to ask him to go with me. We are really good ...

Do I date my best guy friend and risk upsetting his old gf, who was a friend of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6875 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - I think i'm in love with my best guy friend! we've been friends for ages and now that we've both been single for quite some while our friendship has started to develop into something more. However the last girlfriend he had is my ex best friend (we ...

He's into me! But he won't go out with me because he's mates with my ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and recently found out the guy I like is into me. Thanks to you on here who offered me advice I couldn't have done it without you. =) My problem is my ex boyfriend still has feelings for me, and my new crush is really good friends with him...

Should I tell her the truth about my scar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - Ok heres the thing. a few months ago my uncle died and i had trouble dealing with this. as a result i slit my wrist leaving me with a nasty scar. i never told anyone. the other day in school my best friend noticed it and could tell what i had done ...

Was wanting to be my online "pal" the same as being interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6877 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - Hi. There is this guy who I have guessed and he has shown he likes me. Only he is 1 year and a half younger and I was in a relationship at the time I met him. And he did not know until he saw me and my boyfriend really close once. I recently...

We both like him but don't know if I should date him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6878 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - my friend and i have liked the same boy for over 4 years now, and at one time last year i really felt i had fallen in love with him. we fancied each other but i refused to do anything because i felt awful on my friend. now, the boy and i fancy each ...

I want him to see me as more than just a friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - ok, how can i stand out as special to the guy i like? I'm 15, he's 16. I know he kinda likes me cuz his friends have told me, but I know he's also scared to have a relationship with anyone because the last girl he went out with cheated on him. He...

My front teeth are like fangs! I want to be an actor. What steps do I take to get them fixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

21 January 2006 (M) - I have two fang teeth not really big, but they are the top teeth. Now, they aren't growing wrong, I think they have shaped like that over time, Im 15 but would like to get this sorted out as I would like to be an actor, but who do you see with those ...

She wants to be single but wants us to be friends...what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

21 January 2006 (M) - my girlfriend just broke up with me because she wants to be single again. she said she needs time to find what she needs in life. she said she still truly loves me and that there might be a chance for us to get back together soon. also she said she ...

I want to help my new teammate, but afraid that the truth might get her kicked off the team!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6879 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - I'm a 16 year old softball player. There is this new girl on our team who has amazing talent. She's really quiet though, and she should be used to the new team by now. But recently I have discovered that it might not be because of the new team: ...

Best friend is going to lose her virginity with her boy. But I've slept with him! And still want him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6879 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - My best friend is with a guy who's a lot more experienced than her. She's still a virgin, and he said he'd wait for her. The problem is, I really like him. One night he was drunk, and we ended up having sex. We swore we'd never do it again, and ...

I've decided to break up whatever it is we have going, until he can tell me what he wants. Good idea or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6878 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - There's a friend that I've know for years. We always flirt with one another, until last month when we kissed. Since then we are constantly seeing one another. But he's in a relatoniship. I don't expect him to get up and leave, but I need him to tell ...

My ex-best friend now confides in the girl who used to be a b*tch to her... How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6877 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I feel like me and my once called 'best frined' are drifing apart. We are 16 and have been friends for 6 years. Over the time we grow close, particly last year, we became like inseperable. Now just as this new year has started, it feels like we have ...

Did he understand what I was telling him in my message? Or did I not understand his reply?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have always like this guy and he's going overseas so I decided to let him know of my feelings. I said I've always cared for him and that I guess he's my only dream that I could never have. But I guess he hasn't interpreted it well or didn'...

I fancy a friend at work. We're always chatting on email, but he got uncomfortable when I told him I was attracted.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6879 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I recently told a co-worker that I was attracted to him. But let me first explain: We talk a lot about work on the phone and email and sometimes I see him in person. I have told some work related items about some other people and items of importance ...

I like the same guy that my friend likes. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6879 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi...I am a Junior in High School and I am 17 and I like this guy who is 15 and a Freshman in High School! But so does my friend who is in his grade! I don't know what to do! I am friends with him but I want to be more! What do I do??...

I've fallen in love with my married co-worker. I don't think she'll leave her husband, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6827 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - I have fallen in love with the woman i work with. We chat a lot and we can tell each other anything. She knows things about me that i've never told anyone else. Problem is she's married. Things are not that rosy between her and her husband, but i ...

Not afraid of commitment to someone, so why can't I tell my friend that it's him I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I'm not in a relationship now but this guy I like, who's also a good friend and enjoys teasing me. The other day we were watching a horror movie and he told me about the time when he was watching another horror movie with his ex and he was so scare...

There's something going on between my ex and my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6880 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I was in a strong relationship with my boyfriend. We never left each other's side. Then about 2 weeks ago, my old friend started bothering back with me, and since then my boyfriend has changed with me. He walks away from me and does...

Madly in love with my best friend and I think he feels the same. How do I tell him? Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - You know that movie called My Best Friend's Wedding with Julia Roberts? Well I am kind of in that situation. Except my best friend is single and I am hopelessly in love with him. What do I do? How do I tell him? I think he feels the same way, but...

Any good book recommendations to make me a better person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - Hi Everyone. I'm not one to read books, and reviews, infact the last book that I read from start to finish was +- 4years ago, as I do have a pretty busy life style. I want to improve my reading skills and general knowledge about many thi...

It's even harder to tell my friend that I'm beginning to fancy her, because she works overseas so often!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6881 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - 18 months ago I met a girl who works abroad for 9 months of the year. We keep in touch and meet up when she is back but I'm unsure as to tell her just how I feel about her. I have tried in the past to show how I feel this and was met with the ...

Wiithout thinking, I hurt my boyfriend's feelings by mentioning my good (male) friend. What can I do to fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6881 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - Hi , I have had male friends sall my life. Just before my boyfriend and I got together I made a real good buddy. My boyfriend seems to have a problem with him. He is nice with my friend when he sees him, which is seldom, because I don't socialis...

She and her new boyfriend don't talk. They just ring up and sit there, not saying anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - My friend's boyfriend and her are all shy around each other. And it bothers me when she comes over and calls him on her cell phone and she just sits there with the phone on speaker. She just began talking to him at school yesterday after a 3 month ...

I think my friend is just being used by her younger, gay friend. Am I the only one who thinks the relationship is weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - A close (intimate) female friend-53- has a relationship with a younger gay male- 40- which upsets me. She is in the US, he in Europe.They met on a trip a year ago at a resort and seem to have developed a relationship where they communicate almost ...

No matter how hard I try, I can't forget about him. The problem is, he's dating another one of my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - my friend is dating my other friend but i really like him (love). we see eachoda and stuff but i cant stop thinking about him i no that friends are more important but he is my friend to and i really like him. i have tried so hard but i cant forget ...

I'm extremely shy and just starting college. How can I make some friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - Im not sure if anyone can help here, its not really a problem I would just like suggestions. I am extremely shy and have a hard time making friends. I am starting out college this week and I want to know how I can make some friends? Since I am ...

I'm in love with my girlfriend's best friend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - ive got a huge problem please if you can help then do so. ive not long been dating my girlfriend but before, herself and a friend were just mates of mine and ive been trying to get with her friend for quite some time now and i think i have fallen in ...

My friend wants to make her ex jealous by going out with another guy. I don't think that this is the best strategy. How can I get them back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - My friend was in a relashonship with this boy for about a year when one of her friends tells him she wants to break up{even though she really didn't}. Its been a few weeks since this happened and my friend still doe...

I think that my friend has feelings for me, but that she doesn't want anyone to find out because she has a boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - yeah i know that friends come and go but we were realy close like she is realy lovey and stuff when we are alone then when we in front of people sees dffrent and she realy crys when we are alone could she have feeling for me and dont want me to ...

We keep getting left out of things with friends and family... Any ideas to stop the loneliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - hi i am a 24 year old female. lately i have been feeling very lonely. my problem being i have very few friends and the ones i do have i have to do all the running just to keep them. my partner and i have been together for a few years and i moved to ...

Scared for my friend who keeps stringing along and older guy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - my freind is flirting with a 24 year old man.it has got to the point where he wants to get closer to her.but insted of saying she is not intrested in that from him. she keeps stringing him along saying maybe when she means no.do you think there is ...

He doesn't want us to be more than friends over the net

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I like this lad, and I think he likes me. But he says that theres no way we can be more than just mates over msn. I would like to just give up on him, and find someone else to fall in love with, but he's the only one who has shown any interest in ...

My friend and I got on so well but now she doesn't want to know me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - hi im agirl my friend is a girl we got on realy well and we were close when we drank together she would always say i love you to bits dont ever hurt me then kisses me and hugs me alot and starts crying.we went out new year everything was fine the ...

My friend kissed my boyfriend and slapped him on the face! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - what would you do if one of your friends kissed your boyfriend and slaped him on the face? can you help?...