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writes: Dear Cupid: I have a serious problem with my guy friend who is constantly asking me for sexual favors. I told him no everytime he ask and he doesnt seem to get the point that I have a bf and I WONT AND WILL NOT CHEAT ON HIM!!! My concern is that my guy friend may get really pissed off and meant do something. I have been friends with him since 10 grade when he was in 12. Its now 4 years later and he is really getting on my nerves. I need advice on what to do since very thing that i do doesn't work and it's been going on for 2 years. Reply to this Question
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reader, chearfullcharlie +, writes (28 January 2006):
 I Hate guys like that. If he was a TRUE friend he wouldnt ask you for this, and if he is just messing on you, you need 2 tell him where to go. If your boyfriend gets a wiff of this, hes not going to be to happy. Even though he will believe you, he will be angry you never told him...well good luck x
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (27 January 2006):
 If this is his idea of a joke you need to tell him in no uncertain terms you don't find this funny. If not then you have to tell this muppet to BACK OFF. This is not friendship or anyhting else, this is a chancer trying his hand. You loyalty to your bf is commendable and this so-called friends behaviour is laughable. If he won't back off you need to call in some outside help. Maybe enlist thie help of a parent or older friend to warn him off.
Whatver you do I think your *friendship* with this guy has to be accepted as being over. You don't need to put up with this sort of behaviour so please don't.
Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): This guy isn't a "real" friend to you if he's asking for sexual favors!Get rid of him. He seems like trouble! He has no respect for your feelings hun. I feel for you..what a position to be in.Tell him the friendship is over, and go and find a GF of his own, and to leave your life alone!!No one should ever put you in this kind of position. I'm suprised you have let it go on for this long!Tell him his "time is UP!"Good Luck! :)
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