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writes: 18 months ago I met a girl who works abroad for 9 months of the year. We keep in touch and meet up when she is back but I'm unsure as to tell her just how I feel about her. I have tried in the past to show how I feel this and was met with the response that she thought the long distances would be too much of a problem but we continue to stay in touch and she recently said she was coimg home for good in 3 months and not work abroad. I don't want to feel as though I'm coming on too strong as I don't want to scare her off and lose her as friend as snce she works away it would be easy for to lose contact but at the same time I'd like to let her know just how I feel. Has anyone had experience of this or have any advice as to what they think I should do? Hope to hear from you.Thanks
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 If she is back for good in 3 months then maybe you have to play the waiting game a little. Keep in touch and be affectionate but don't push the issue until she is settled back. It is possible she has alot on right now and so if you do push then this could cause problems right now. Just do what you have been doing for now.
However, when she is back there is plenty more scope to go out with her and settle into a pattern. Rather than launch into your feelings take her out somewhere as a 'welcome back' kind of thing. Make it special then tell her. She may want to leave thinking about things like that until she is properly back and settled so i would suggest biding your time for now.
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