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Archived questions from: December, 2019 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I'm worried about my mental health.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1783 days ago

31 December 2019 (F) - I'm scared i'm sinking into depression and can't pull myself out of it. I'm a Mum of one (teenager) and came out of a long term relationship in October. When I had my child, I battled post-natal depression for several years and so I think I c...

Are my wife and mother being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1784 days ago

31 December 2019 (M) - Am I paranoid or are people selfish? I recently had a road traffic collision and as a result I was prevented from doing my usual sports or activities by my wife and mother, physically I was fine. They both said I shouldn’t drive for my health ju...

My ex and I remain friends, he has invited me to a family party.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1786 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - my ex and I dated for two years we have been broken up for a year now we still remain friends and hang out almost everyday he has invited me to a family party what should I expect...

Extended family, I'm damned if I do, and damned if I dont.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1786 days ago

29 December 2019 (F) - some background: I am an expat living in my husbands country. Despite that on the surface, everyone gets along, there has been unspoken tension for years. Without listing everything off, basically my MIL and my BILs gf have given me silent ...

My Ex Girlfriend has told me the only person who will raise our son is her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1787 days ago

29 December 2019 (M) - The mother of my child and my ex girlfriend got a new boyfriend. We’ve been broke up since October 28, of last year. So roughly 14 months ago. About, May of that time period, only a month or two after our son was born. We were at my senior ...

I'm miserable in our relationship of 7 years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1773 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship now for almost 7 years and I am so miserable there is no excitement I try talking to him on a night just general chit chat and I get totally ignored by him he shows me attention when he wants sex when he gets it he goes to ...

I'm in love with my cousin - a followup to my previous question.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1785 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - I am re posting this question with extra details as I need more advice he has a girlfriend of 4 years, we have NOT had sex, he has never threatened me or hit me est... , i think I’m in love i want to know what he thinks and what I can do etc... I...

I've ruined my familly, I can't look at them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1788 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - I had a family and it was beautiful. I never actually cheated physically but I talked to a guy for a month or so. It was never sexual, at least not from my standpoint. It was sweet. I liked the attention. I liked the new excitement. I like...

I don't want to be in this marriage anymore.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1787 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - I don’t think I want to be in my marriage anymore. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. It’s really never been great. He’s a completely closed off person. We never talk about anything - future goals, family planning, budgets, our ...

My boyfriend's good side is wonderful, it is why I have stayed so long.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1789 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Over the last year, I've spent 5 months total with my bf. Let me give you a timeline. January-gone half the month working February-gone half the month because he was mad at me but we took a trip to Florida where we reconciled but then I flew acro...

How do I balance 3 young children along with a love life with my partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1791 days ago

26 December 2019 (F) - I'm a mother to 3 young children, ages 5,3 and 2. It gets very overwhelming sometimes, as parenting can get but we have fun. I've been with their father for 6 years. Lately it seems to be a bit of a struggle for us to balance this parenting/p...

I got my step-sister pregnant. How do I tell the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1791 days ago

25 December 2019 (M) - I was with my step-sister who is only a year younger then me when she told me she had a crush. I asked her who it was and she said a guy called. Which I thought was weird as that was also my name. I said 'Can I meet him?' She said 'WE'RE NOT ...

Troubled family relationships am I in the wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1790 days ago

25 December 2019 (F) - Trying to cut a long story short as I just need an outsiders point of view. I have been with my partner for almost 14 years and throughout this time he has a lot of pressure from his parents. Not only that, they make him feel not good enough, he is ...

How can I survive my toxic relationship with my mother in law and her sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1675 days ago

24 December 2019 (F) - My boyfriend's family and this situation has got me drained mentally plus giving me severe anxiety and depression. My mother in law and her sister who I live inside the same residence with, hate me. I live on the second floor apartment. Everyone ...

We rarely have sex and b/f watches brother/sister porn. Does he want to have sex with his sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1792 days ago

24 December 2019 (F) - Why does my bf watch porn w/ brother and sister having sex? He gets defensive when i asked him about it. We rarely have sex because he says he's tired but waits until i go to bed then masterbates. Does this mean he doesn't like having sex or is ...

My boyfriend and his crazy ex .... I'm wondering if I should just leave them to it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1794 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - My partner and I just got back together, and he has female friends and he slept with all of them. This one in particular that he keeps in contact with I really hate her because she was his gf before we got back together and she did some really nasty ...

I'm worried I am leaving it too late to have a family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

21 December 2019 (F) - I just recently turned 33 years old a couple of months ago and I am panicking about my age - specially because of the comments I get from my family about getting married and my eggs being dried up and mocking me about how I can’t seem to find anyone ...

How do I win my AWOL husband back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1796 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hi I am at my wits end and I don’t know what to do. My husband and I have been separated for years but I’m still in love with him. He won’t divorce me but he’s now moved abroad and aplenty living with somebody. Before he moved away we would meet up ...

I'm compensating my lonliness by filling my life with material things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hello all, I've been having a really hard time controlling myself spending a lot of money. It all started 3 years ago when I first started university. I lost contact with my friends from school, they kept cancelling plans whenever we wanted to ...

I'm annoyed my boyfriend will be spending my birthday with his sister instead of me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

18 December 2019 (F) - Hi just looking for some opinions about this it’s my birthday tomorrow and my partner is at work all day until 4.30 now his sister have just phoned him asked him to go straight to hers from work to do some jobs around the house naturally I am ...

I'm unhappy about having to spend much of Christmas Day alone.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1798 days ago

17 December 2019 (M) - I’m an 18-year old lad and facing the majority of Christmas day alone. I’ve honestly never felt so rotten in my entire life. As well as having Aspergers syndrome I’ve always been shy and introverted, and as such I’ve got no friends in life and have ...

It's been over 20 years but how do I turn the feelings off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1803 days ago

10 December 2019 (M) - I had sexual relationship with my cousin for a a long time. We met in a city and we lived together like man and wife for five years. Only one of my brothers knew about it because we live in a city far away from home. After the 5 years each of us got ...

My family never visits me and leave sit all up to me to see each other

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

10 December 2019 (F) - I live across the country from my family for work. Since I've moved, in three years, my family has only visited me twice. Every other visit has been my doing. I tell them I miss them. I tell them I'd like them to visit but they won't. They rely on ...

A friend is basing all of our interactions around her 9 year old son and I am getting weirded out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

9 December 2019 (F) - I entered a graduate program (2 year length) last August where I met Wanda. She is about a decade older than me and is married with an elementary age son. I am married in my late twenties. My husband and I moved to a new part of the country just so ...

I don't understand why my daughter is attracted to an older guy with nothing going for him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

7 December 2019 (F) - my adult daughter is dating a guy that is lazy and unmotivated. he is almost 40 he only has an id no drivers license i want better for her and don't know how to talk to her. i don't understand....

I'm planning to visit my LD boyfriend in Germany and he has ditched plans with me to spend time with his friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

6 December 2019 (F) - He I've been in a long distance relationship with a German guy for a while now, but I'm just at a point where I feel frustrated and undervalued. This is the issue we're currently having: He told me he wanted me to spend Christmas with him...

He said he loved me, then he went to Mexico and now he barely speaks with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1811 days ago

6 December 2019 (F) - My bf and I were starting to become super close . He told me he loved me and than he went to Mexico with his parents . The first few days he msg me and sent me pictures . Now he has been gone 5 days and he barely speaks to me . This morning I told ...

She moved on, married, had children, but I never got closure.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

6 December 2019 (M) - I met a girl about a year after my divorce and it was a year after her divorce also. We both fell in love and dated each other for about four years. She wanted to get married and have children. I was afraid to get married, so we basically started ...

My boyfriend's sister in law says they are in a "live in" arrangement.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1812 days ago

4 December 2019 (F) - I and my boyfriend were like best friends . And our relationship was at its best . He's very loving , caring and understanding. And his brother's wife keeps calling him more often , all day and night which I hate the most and I told him that I d...

My estranged husband is still trying to rule my life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1813 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - My "estranged" husband is always trying to keep tabs on me and I feel like it's an invasion of my privacy. We are separated and no longer live together. We have a young child (under 10) who lives with me and will stay with him on the occasional w...

I've been tracking my wife via her phone and she lies about where she has been.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1809 days ago

3 December 2019 (M) - I’ve had suspicions my wife has been cheating on me for some time. There were signs all over the place that I just couldn’t ignore. In the end I decided to track her day to day using the ‘Find my iPhone’ app whilst I was at work and the kids were at ...

I really want a baby, is this a stage I am going through?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - I turn 18 in a couple months and have been with my boyfriend a little over 2 years. We are neighbors so we have slept with each other but I really want a baby. And I really want to be with him forever. Is this just a stage I am going through?...

I think my wife of 24 years is seeing other men.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 837 days ago

2 December 2019 (M) - Dear Cupid, I and my wife have been married for 24 years with children. We have been trusting each other so much so that she even tells me when some man tries her for sex i do the same, when a woman,mostly her friend, starts sweet-talking me. Howe...

We both have children, he wants us to live together but his children need more help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

2 December 2019 (F) - I love my boyfriend of one year. He would do anything for me and appears to want this relationship more than ever. We've been spending a lot of time together over the months and hes ready to start living together. I dont think its too soon but i ...

I'm having sex with my ex who is married to someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1812 days ago

1 December 2019 (F) - Hello everyone, so I'm in a situation that I've never been in one before. And I don't know where to start so I'm going to try to keep it as short as possible. I have a daughter that is 8 years old. Her father and I have been split up since...