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writes:I and my boyfriend were like best friends . And our relationship was at its best . He's very loving , caring and understanding. And his brother's wife keeps calling him more often , all day and night which I hate the most and I told him that I don't like all this .He tells me that she's like his mom , she has lot of problems so me and my family takes care of her etc . One day his brother's wife called me and said that , she and my boyfriend are in live in relationship for years . When she was talking to me over phone , my boy friend was next to her . When I fought with him , he said she's mentally sick and she's possessive on him that's why she said all this etc . I'm not able to trust both of them completely . And he's not saying anything properly and I'm unable to forget this . It keeps disturbing me. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2019): Correct me if I'm wrong. Your boyfriend's brother's wife is living with your boyfriend and not her husband. If this is true it sounds suspicious. Is she separated from her husband? Why would she be possessive of your boyfriend and not her husband? The whole thing smells and you're right not to trust his story.
If you believe your boyfriend is not being truthful, (and you have every right to doubt his explanation), then you should seriously consider dumping him.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 December 2019):
 Dump him?
It sounds like WAY too much family drama.
She MIGHT be mentally sick, possessive etc. but usually there is some truth to things like that and SHE is family, you are not. Let's say for a minute what SHE said was true. Would YOU really want to date a guy who is messing around with his SIL? He is ACTIVELY engaging with her through calls and text doesn't that tell you something is up?
And let's say for a minute that she is mentally ill, what ELSE might she come up with?
Wish him well and don't date someone with so much family drama.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2019): Your boyfriend is lying. He's in a relationship with another woman and you are his bit on the side.
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