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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

The sex has gone to zero, he said we'll try again soon, 2 months later, still zero. Though he still watches porn. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for just over a year now, our sexlife was great literally like rabbits! But within the past year it's become non existent. He's 6 years older than me, (im 20) but has never bothered us. I know he's not cheating on me that's ...

We've been together for 6 months but now he's pushing me away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I'm gonna make this quick. In college, just been diagnosed with epilepsy, secretly depressed - family thing I just can't talk about it. I've been with the most amazing guy for six months, we really love each other. Well I thought we did. I love him ...

My question is why some lasses follow you around when you give up on them? Give her a second chance or will that lead to heartbreak?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 May 2014 (M) - Hi I was sort of knowing a girl and dating her but I felt she was a bit cold and distant so I thought she's not interested and moved on! To tell you further, I actually liked her a lot and it was sort of heartbreaking to move on! Surely it took s...

I'm stressed because I can't seem to find that passionate love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I am 22 and still did not find "real -passionate love". I had 4 boyfriends but noone of them could impress me so much. I know it might sound strange, then "why I was with them". Well, because I loved them but not with love. Not with THAT kind of ...

I'm scared to be a single mum with 2 kids at 20, but I don't think I love my fiance anymore. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I'm in a very tricky dilemma. I don't think I love my fiance anymore. Me and my fiance have been together for over 2 years now and have a daughter together and I'm pregnant again. Although we are constantly arguing, we don't get along anymore, I ...

We've both decided we want different things in life but can't seem to end it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I've been with my bf for almost 3 years and from the start our relationship hasn't been great. We live together but I feel we're more like house mates than partners. We both work a 9 - 5 and while he's really into gaming on his ga...

I am beginning to hate the husband I once loved like life, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear cupids, my problem lies with my marriage. We married out of love 4 years ago. Have a daughter and live far away from home. Recently I have been feeling less love for my husband that it disturbs me a lot. I don't feel any pinch when I see him ...

She said she don't love me no more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3863 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - My now ex and I have been on and off for 4 years now. Last year we split because she accused me of cheating and to me it felt like she wanted to be single so she didn't have to go with me places. She got pregnant early into our relationship, which ...

I'm thinking of splitting up with my boyfriend but I just can't, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now and it's just fizzled out on my end and I don't know why, he's caring, loving, respectful and everything a person could ask for. It just started very rocky with some horrible behaviour when i ...

I don't want to be unkind, but really the relationship is over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - hi, I've been seeing my bf for 4 years, we've been very close over the years, although not particularly intimate as he wouldn't stay over very often. because of this, when he wanted to move in last year I wouldn't let him until intimacy improved but ...

How do I get him to express his love for me? He and his family withdrew the marriage proposal because of my health!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - Hi Agony aunts there, I met a guy a month ago through matrimonial site for marriage alliance.he is 6 years elder to me,both our families met and we both liked each other.After our meet he pinged me in Facebook and we were having short conversa...

We haven't kissed or cuddled for years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for almost ten years. We are a gay couple, but things aren't all rosey I'm afraid. Our sex life has completely broken down for no apparent Reason. I've asked on regular occasions why, but he is older than me by...

Should I try again with my ex? We have 2 daughters and have been apart for 4 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - My question is whether it is a good idea to try have a relationship with an ex again when there is children involved? My ex wants to get back together after 4 years apart, and even though I would like to try, I have a fear it would affect our...

It seems like we've lost interest in each other -- how do we get it back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid.... i joined this site as im in a relationship and have been 2 years this june, however since i've got my job in july 2013 we seem to have lost interest in eachother we sit in seperate rooms when he comes to stay and our sex life is ...

Should I cut contact altogether with him? He's an unappealing combination of arrogance and cheesiness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - The guy I used to date and I are talking now, just as friends. We had an abrupt break up so now we are just exchanging friendly emails to catch up, I guess. I never went beyond friendly because I thought that after almost a year of not seeing each ...

We've drifted apart and I've met someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (M) - I have been with my current partner for several years now and we have two beautiful children together. We got together quite young and fell with the first after only 6months of being together . We haven't been unhappy but we have drifted apart over ...

Will spending time apart really help us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and 3 months and we live together. It feels like our relationship is running into the ground. I'm not sure if its because we spend all our time together or what. Our daily routine is he goes to work at ...

Is it normal to fall in love with someone else while you're in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

17 May 2014 (F) - This is going to sound depressing but... Is it normal to fall in love with someone else when you're in a relationship? I see it happen ALL the time...Where one partner stops loving their partner and falls in love with another person. In fact,...

My husband keeps gaining weight and I find it so unattractive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I'm married to a veteran. We moved to Asia after he got out of the army. He used to look very muscular during his serving time but now after going back to the civil world, he started gaining lots of weight. I know he loves eating and drinking pop ...

My husband prefers masturbating to porn to making love with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - We have been married for 3 years for the last two years or more my husband has had a very low sex drive so i thought, he went to the doc 2 years ago who put him on testosterone which really didnt improve anything he started blaming his issues on his ...

My Bf says that talking to this other girl is "different" and he's not going to stop talking to her. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years lived together for 6 and half years. For a long time now he has been ignoring me and i have felt pushed away and unloved. he has said he feels that i dont love him anymore and says i am pushing him away bec...

Is it time to close the door on my current relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - my relationship seems to be on the rocks with my boyfriend of over three years. I have a 5year old daughter from a previous relationship, which ended because i couldn't take anymore lies, disrespectful behavior which of course lead to dist...

Should I leave my boyfriend? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Hello. I would so appreciate if someone could give me advice on my problem as I really don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, I am 22 he is 24, we have been going out since our teens. We didn't have the best relationshi...

Give me some ideas to make him miss me and get excited about me again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - I'm so depressed right now. There's so much trouble withmy boyfriend of 5 years. He's not the same with once we knew each other. He's busy with his friends and we are rarely see each other. How to make him miss me and excited about me again? ...

Can you please help me find a way to get my boyfriend to be intimate with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3879 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm happy to say I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now we get along great and it's very rare we fight and when we do it's never a long and we always learn to reconcile with each other quick. The only thing th...

Is the new hair, the underwear for the gym, and texting her friends for her pleasure or for someone else's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 May 2014 (M) - Ok over 2months ago me and my girlfriend joined a gym together thought it would bring us closer which it didn't cause I wanted to use the weights and she was only the light equipment for the first few weeks we went 2 times a week then our kids had ...

I've been waiting for him to get the divorce and get a mortgage with me, and now that he says he will, I'm not as excited as I thought I would be!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

7 May 2014 (F) - You may know from previous posts I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have just had a weeks break as I could not cope anymore with only seeing him once a week. I have taken up Ho vies and made new friends but at the end of he day I still ...

How can I keep this relationship going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and we live together at the beginning of our relationship it was the best kind of relationship we always did things together we went every where together there was never a boring moment. ...

I feel like it's tarnished the beginning of our relationship and don't know if I can get past that.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

5 May 2014 (F) - I started seeing a guy 5 months ago. At the beginning we weren't serious and he took some time out when he had a few problems with his daughter. Things are now good between us but the trouble is I have suspicions he slept with 1, maybe 2 people when ...

Lack of emotional closeness in otherwise good relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

5 May 2014 (M) - I have learned to accept that my girlfriend of three years is a little bit emotionally distant by nature. In three years I have never seen her cry, she's just not one who gets sad or has her feelings hurt or needs an abundance of affection, etc. ...

She said she's lost passion for the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

5 May 2014 (M) - my girlfriend broke up with me last Thursday because of some mixed feelings and confusion on both of our parts. I pushed her away because I was starting to smother her too much and she lost interest in the relationship and was feeling miserable, at ...

He is giving me mixed signals what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

3 May 2014 (F) - I fell in love with this guy I know he had feelings for me We used to work together he's extremely popular and everyone likes him please don't judge but we got close and kissed he's been living with a girl for 6 years and he said after we kis...