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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My heart is broken, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I'm in complete love with my ex boyfriend. He is my everything. But he hates me and I have no idea why. I no what your thinking ask him why. I have he shrugs and says I dunno I dont. I have two really really close friends one is pissed becuz I talk ...

Tempted by another man...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Me and my Boyfriend have been together 4 years off and on, im sure i love him i know he loves me, but ive been talking to another guy and met up with once, im 23 and im not sure if its being with him from such a young age....now im tempted to ...

We only have sex about once a month but I want more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi,iv been with my bf for nearly four years now and living together for 2. I love being with him cos we have loads in commen and everything but he just doesnt get intimate with me much at all anymore,it hurts when we go to bed at night and he wont ...

Is she being for real or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Ok, First want to say I have been writing on this site through every process in my breakup and the whole process is going as you all said it would. I followed all the advice given to me and it has lead to me to where I am right now. My ex of ...

He just wants to play online games. I don't know what to do, and I'm lonely...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This confuses me, so good luck potential advice givers. I've been in my relationship three years now, and I've overcome a lot. But, to the more recent issue, he has a bad online addiction to MMO RPGs. He used to be so hooked on WOW that he turned ...

I've become the green eyed monster over two girls I'm not even with anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I've become a green-eyed monster. I feel jealous and I don't know why. There are two women I'm concerned about right now. It started last night. I came across some old photos of an old girlfriend. My first love, who broke up with me nearly two ye...

All I want is some attention, is that too much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - me and my fience have been togehter 3 years we've recently been looking at places to live together. he's just started a new job and he's being sooo werid when he get in from work its like a 5 minute conversation then he wants to go to relax then i d...

I know I don't love him but I can't seem to break away from him.

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28 April 2009 (F) - Help! I am so confused. I got with this boy in March 2008, been with him over a year now. Thing is I really dont love him but there is something stopping me from dumping him. We have had a really bad relationship he really pisses me off and we d...

My girlfriend says she is looking to date other men but I am having trouble with this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend says she is looking to date other men but i am having trouble with this what should i do?...

I'm not sure I still love the father of my children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I am married; we seperated for about 4 months and I went back with him because I wanted my kids to be with there father. I am 19 yrs old with 2 lil girls I mean my husband isn’t a bad person he just is very jealous. He don’t want me to have any ...

Why couldn't I just fall for a decent guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My ex was the only guy i've ever loved. But he cheated and is a liar. We spoke recently after not talking since it ended (when i found his lies). he told me he misses me and wants to see me more. I'm never going back to him after he treated me! b...

Broke up four years ago, text all the time. Does he still like me?

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26 April 2009 (F) - Hi ok so I have an ex who I have been friendly with since we broke up 4 years ago we are practically always in contact at least once a week/fortnight but in November he had a baby with his girlfriend ...

My b/f is only nice in bed. I need more of his attention, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - I feel my bf is liking me with a reserve. We haven't been with each other for very long. I feel distant because he doesn't show enough affection. For example, he won't hold my hand in public or call me before he goes to sleep. On weekends, he always ...

She always says she doesn't know what she is feeling. Do we have a future together?

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25 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and we both claim to love each other, but I'm not sure she understands love. Whenever I ask her to come to mine she is always a bit reluctant but would eventually come to mine after I ...

I really can't get over him...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - So there's this guy I've know sine I was 4, really close friend, looked out for me, talked to each other about problems and he was really sweet and cute. afew years ago I found out that I kinda liked him...I didn't tell anyone coz I thought it was...

I think I need to be single but don't have the guts to tell my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old, I am in a 3 1/2 years relationship with my boyfriend, in which, I love still but than again it's becoming very lame. I feel bad to break up with him because he loves me so much... I decided to go away for College.. I live in ...

Can anyone tell me if this is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - so what can i say, im a little confused and im pretty sure its over but i just want to hear others opinions on this matter, as it is rather confusing and frustrating. So ive been in a long distance relationship for a while now, everything was f...

Confused and heart broken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years and he told me yesterday he needs a break from our relationship. We've been fighting alot lately, mainly about money. We both have good jobs but he wastes his money on stupid things then ...

It's great when we talk, but he doesn't have much time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - okay I've been going out with my boyfrend for about 2 years . I am 17 and he is nearly 20 , this whole year all he does is work and ONLY lately like the past few weeks he's hardly been talking to me , im always the one to call him , I always have to ...

Should I go for the new girl or stay in my shaky relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I have been in a long term relationship (5 years) with a woman and I have recently met another woman that has given me all these strange feelings, i dont if you would call it love, but i cant stop thinking about her and im longing to be near her so ...

He says he doesn't love me but wants to do right by the children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hi I am the mother of 7 children ranging from the ages of 30 to 8 years old. About 14 years ago I met my husband. I was a devout christian woman with 4 children then. I abstained from a relationship for about 10 years. Then I found myself going in...

The damage is done and I cant make heads or tails of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Boy oh boy please dont judge me... I been in my relationship for over 13 years to be judged. You can't help who you love. I loved him since the day I met him in 3/1989. He was married with two kids, very handsome but he went with a lot of women. I...

I live with my boyfriend and every single day I cry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I live with my boyfriend who I have been with for a year now and every single day I cry. He makes me feel so lonely and unwanted. He never wants to spend any time with me at all, he's always busy on the computer or with his mates and he reckons ...

After 3 years together, do you think we are drifting apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I can't help deciding what to do. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and over the last 3 months, things with us have not been great. we don't argue, but we don't talk either. I can't help but feel that we are driting apart. I went out...

Boyfriend falling out of love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I feel that my boyfriend is falling out of love . He tells me that he loves me and misses me but Im not sure. He calls others girls and he hardly calls me. We have been together for a year or so. How can I make him fall back in love with me. Sh...

Married 24 years, no affection left

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Please let me know how do you feel about this? Married for 24 years,3 kids together.. -kids ,are grown up but needy -husband totally cold,but says he loves me -we have no sex life -we fight a lot,on working too much,and lack of affection ...

He doesn't text me anymore - is it over?

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19 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now, he is the sweetest thing and I am really happy when we meet up and I know I love him but he cancels on me a lot, he doesn't txt me anymore and I just spend most of the time wishing he were here and ...

I don't like being with him any more because of the way he looks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I don't like being with him any more because of the way he looks. My boyfriend is 13 and I'm 15, he's 5"2, I'm 5"6, he's small and thin, I'm broad and larger... Everyone looks at us wierdly together ect. What do I do!!!...

I think we have hit the 7 year itch!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Ive been with my partner for 7 years, weve got 2 young kids together and everything was prefect until we hit the 7 year mark. We argue all the time sometimes about stupid things. I dont want us to split up but im not sure i can carry on like thi...

She blames me for her lack of interest in sex but now she is meeting up with her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hi I have been married now for 5 months and it all appears to be going wrong. we seem to have had 4 major arguments in the past 2 weeks, resulting in her telling me that shes had enough and it cant go on. we talked and managed to sort things o...

The answer in the face of question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Things were awesome at first! But my fears became true, the honeymoon phase ended and now all we seem to do is fight, argue, and not get along. I can't say that the ...

He wants to take things slow. Good or Bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Any advice men or women appreciated. I'm with a man who I have known for 7 years, recently we have become a couple and we have both decided that it's time that we settle down and have decided to make things work between us.His past relationships ...

I'm starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hello everybody... I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and we've already been through so much together... But, I think starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her because i don't want to hu...

I'm not going to let her push me away without a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Ok... I wrote a while ago and things have pretty much remained the same. We've talked a bit more and she told me that she's never felt this strongly about someone this quickly before....but she is pushing me away even more now. I don't call her, ...

She said she doesn't want me in her life. What did she mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - My ex and I recently began to talk a little bit after we broke up about 4 months ago. She broke up with me with "its just not working", we were going out for about a year and half. We both were very much in love for a long time and guess just fell ...

Its only been a year. How can he be so uninterested already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i met while working with each other and still currently do. We have been together for a little over a year now. We are both 21 years old and this is the longest relationship we have both ever been in. I think that our relationship ...

Engaged to be married .. but now having second thoughts. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I'm engaged to a woman who I've dated for a combined total of 1.5 years (with a four year break-up). I love spending time with her and although we don't have too many shared interests, we always find ways to entertain ourselves for hours on end. ...

My girlfriend doesn't seem to want to hang out with me anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - I am looking for advice from people that have been or are in long term relationships. I have been going out with this girl for 6 years now. We met in high school, I went away to college and we continued dating long distance, then she moved to the...

It's Painful During Sex..Why? Please Help!

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7 April 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship with a 50 year old man. I am 22. My Parents do not approve of the relationship, but his family are lovely towards me. We have been together for 5 years now and lived together for 3 years. The first year we lived together we were...

I don't think I love my husband anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I don't think I love my husband anymore. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now, we have a 2 year old son. I was married at the age of 23. At the moment we have a lot going on, I've been telling him that I feel lost and that I don't...

I am so lost and scared to be hurt further...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I need help with a confusing relationship....? I have been dating this guy for the past year. We had the whole commitment talk like 3 months in. At about 6 months he became confused and we took like a week off, still talking the whole time. He ended...

Is sex the only thing that connects us?

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6 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend connected only for sex. after a year my boyfriend get boared. what to do to continue my relationship. ...

She says "Everything is fine" but I have a feeling it's not. What should I do?

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6 April 2009 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for over two years now and at the beginning she would want to have sex regularly this then decreased but i wasn't worried i thought that was normal but now we don't have sex for weeks and the worst part is she has neve...

He isnt showing his love to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I feel like my boy friend of 41/2 years which is my first of everything is not showing actions for the things he say. for example: he say he loves me but he show other. he dont take my feelings in consideration, when he know the problem or the ...

Should I tell my wife her former love has passed away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - My wife of six months was engaged to be married to another fellow about a year before she met me (2 yrs ago). From what I gather he was practically the perfect man except for his insatiable desire for women. Hence he was a cheater. The second ...