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writes:Ok, First want to say I have been writing on this site through every process in my breakup and the whole process is going as you all said it would. I followed all the advice given to me and it has lead to me to where I am right now. My ex of 4 years broke up with me 5 months ago. She broke up me with saying she needed space. I was torn, heartbroken. But we talked off and on through the break then after a month or two she said she is going to start seeing someone else. After ignoring her and trying to get over her after that I just couldnt. I wouldnt talk to her but never went a day without missing her. Well after about another month of her with this new guy she tells me she is not with him anymore. She tells me she never stopped loving and missing me. She wants to talk about getting back together and said she hopes she didnt ruin her chances with me. Problem is, is she being for real or not? I still love her and miss her but only want her back if I know if she is sincere. Will she flake out again? Can we repair the damage that has been done? Trust is an obvious issue now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Ya uncle phil is rite!!
But if you want my opinion-she made a mistake,she's only human!! Its not like she cheated on you, she wanted space and she's had it but now she wants you bk!!
Just remember she wants you bk for a reason and thats bcos she loves you and misses you but alot of talking has to be done b4 ye get bk together!!
Be honest with eachother
good luckxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): all things are possible -
i think i would ask as uncle Phil says, but ask her what she saw in him, that you guys didn't have and then work towards that.
but take it slow - there is a lot of damage here that can be repaired.
Hugs, Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): I can almopst feel what you're feeling now, and basically there's only one answer to your question as far as I can see - and that's to ask the woman herself. No-one on this site can answer for her.
Just ask her what you've asked us - it doesn't get any simpler than that.
Best of luck mate
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