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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Why won't he commit after 2 years? He changes the subject when I talk about buying a house...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i have been with my partner for 2 yrs, i have 2 children so we cant move in together cos he has no room. but when i talk about us gettin a house together he changes the subject. am i wasting my time here i love him so much but after 2 years why wont ...

Am I over-reacting when I think...she may have lost interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - There is a girl Im really interested in who is in one of my college classes. She seems to be interested in me also. Recently she told me that we should hang out soon. A week passed and she didn't say anything about hanging out. This weekend I ...

I let him go because things didn't get any better, but I miss him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I had to break up with him. Although he said he does love me. He never shows it. Never says it...only through a text. Never kisses or cuddles me anymore. Even a non existent sex life. So i said all this to him. and he said he'd try. Just that he ...

What's the best way to split up when you live together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 years and we are currently living together. I know that I want to get married and have a family however I know that I do not want these things with her. She is my best friend and has been so since long ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - should i break up with my boyfriend? i've known him for 2 and a half years ive loved him for half that and we've been dating for 5 months he is my best friend and i tell him everything. we did meet on myspace and we talk on the phone and use we...

Help! I need tips on how to win my ex back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been arguin 4 a while now and things went a bit OTT and we split up. Does anyone hav any tips on how i could win him back? X...

I love my ex and want her back. Please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5929 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago because she didnt love me anymore she didnt state a reason she said she didnt love me anymore. i ve bin chasing her and tried to be her friend but we have lately had arguments. all i want is her back can ...

How do I put the spark back into our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) - [Moderator note: The age given as 10-12 is obviously an error. Please ignore that age listing.] My question is how do I put the spark back into my relationship? Let me give you a little bit of background. My soon to be husband and I have b...

I am beginning to feel like we are more friends with benifits than lovers. I am feeling more and more unloved. Are we over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, does anyone know the signs of a relationship on its way out please? Its just i am feeling more and more unloved as the weeks go by. For example my boyfriend and i have moved in together, thinking i would get to see more of him, however i am fin...

I didn't know what I liked when we got married! Now I realise I don't like many things about my wife. Should I stall this real estate deal because I'm unsure of my marriage? Should I move on from her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Where do I begin... We have been married for 15 years. I was 18. We have 3 kids--15, 13 and 6. When we first were married and for many years there after, we were broke. A small level of success has only come in the last 3 years or so. ...

I call and call and my calls aren't returned until days later. Maybe he's not in love with me as he says? How can I talk about this without seeming needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Help. I'm not sure what this means. I've been with this guy for a while. Actually we have a very interesting history, we've known each other and have been great friends for many years. We've dated in the past. I love him very much and he has ...

One minute I'm crying over him, the next I'm like whatever, I don't care! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I started talking to this boy last december when i was 18 and he was 17. We became really close talking every minute. Now i should mention he was on an ankle bracklet at the time. Okay so in that January he got locked up and we wrote to each other ...

Does the fact that he is missing me means that he loved me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I had a relationship for about 10 months with the perfect man, he's really smart (a scientist) and so nice to me, he gave me flowers and all tipe of presents for no reason, he cooked for me every time we were together, treated me like a princess. ...

Why do I still feel sad about him? For 4 months he put me through hell!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I finally broke things off with my emotionally abusive boyfriend a few weeks ago. During our short relationship (4 months but we've known each other for years), he put me through hell and also had some 'dark secrets' he told me. Well, one of those ...

I don't know what decision to make with my life and relationship with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi, i am in a bit of a situation.long story really, but here we go. I have been with my partner for 5.5 years, and we had planned on movign to another country where i was brought up, we planned this for 2 years, but when it came to the crunch this ...

I find myself accidentally in love with this past gf, who I just want to see, be around. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - 3 years ago, I had a pretty bad fall out with an ex-girlfriend. And now everytime i think about the relationship, some assholic memory of me will arise and I hate it, it makes me hate myself and i get embarassed thinking about it even if im alone ...

He said he would stay with me, but I can't get his comments out of my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm so confused and upset. I have been with my bf for over 4 yrs. I have been ill and out of work and he has been living in my house and supporting me. We argue because he's not good at communicating and therefore i keep second guessing...

Should I send this email to my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Here's the backstory. Before we started going out, we worked together and became good friends by being there for each other through tough times in our respective lives. Once she left the job, we started officially going out, and we were ...

Are we to be or not to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I am concerned. I have been with my man 5 years. We recently had a 7 month break as our reltionship was in a bit of a rut (my call). I am glad to be back together, and he is doing everything he can to make things better. My concern is that ...

He just keeps on breaking my heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - hi there, Me and my ex have been broken up for around six months. I felt that I was finally getting over him until I went on holiday. He was on the same holiday as me with his friends. We met and exclaimed that we still loved each other and decide...

Can a marriage survive if you're more like brother and sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I am married to a lovely, caring man. The problem is I just don't love him anymore. I spend my time thinking I want to get divorced and I just can't shake the feeling we're wrong. When we have sex, I cry - it just feels wrong. We're good frie...

I'm getting married, but the further our engagement moves along, the colder my feet get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - I’m getting married, but I feel like a mid-life crisis waiting to happen. I am engaged to a wonderful woman who loves me with all of her heart, but the further our engagement moves along, the colder my feet get. Hell, I’m scared to death! I a...

We only spend together 3 months a year and it's amazing! When we're apart though it seems we are two strangers. How can I make our phone conversations more fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 4 years now and im very much in love with him. He is 18 and im 21. He lives in a different country and comes every once a year for 3 months. Thats the only time i get to spend with him. When we meet its just amaz...

God led me to his front door but now it's been closed! Why is he playing with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - The relationship started with divine circumstances. God, literally, led me to his front door. A simple question turned into an hour long conversation ending with him asking for my number and to see me again. He called immediately. That was June ...

Was I just a rebound to her? She now has a new man, how do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - I met my ex about 3 years ago, we were introduced by a mutual friend. The 3 of us would meet and play pool and have a few drinks a couple times a week when I was back in town from work. This went on until the start of this last summer. Now during ...

I think it is wrong to stay in a relationship with my boyfriend while I love his best friend, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I like this guy name "Eric" for a while before telling one of my close friends about my little crush for him. So she comes up with a plan to slip him a note into this books one day saying I like him. I eventually give in and wrote a very brief note ...

Marriage issue - I don't know how to deal with this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - I dont know how to deal with what I feel is a problem and my husband doesnt want to discuss it. Met my hubby when I was 20, he was my first boyfriend I fell in love almost instantly and have loved him ever since (thats 16 years so far), I know he ...

Is love dead?

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20 September 2008 (M) - Hi all, Basically I know that there are two 'schools' of love nowadays. One of which is the traditional one, the other is the modern, game-like type of love. [Traditional] It involves things like: 1). Being sincere 2). Persistence 3)....

Why does she update me about her life if we are over? The reason of our fight is very small. Do I keep calling her when she never picks up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5936 days ago

20 September 2008 (M) - From time to time, my gf and I have a fight. Every time it happened, she dump me and we get back together after few days. This time is no exception but I feel it is quite different from the past fights and I am confused. Usually, during the fight...

We are still in the relationship even though she's not 'in love' with me. How do I let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5937 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - I met my girlfriend just under three years ago, at the time i was in an unhappy relationship of about 9 years, and when we met the whole cliche happened... fireworks, sleepless nights, shortness of breath upon even seeing her in the street. We both ...

Is my husband cheating? He doesn't come home and blames our fights on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I been with my husband for 6 years married for 5. he got a job 2years a go as a driver. in the first couple of months it was good coming home in time then everything change he started coming home late then not coming home at all an his excuse was ...

My boyfriend and I only talk every few weeks, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for a while now. We only see each once every two weeks, roughly, and he never texts/calls in between. I'm getting really depressed; I told him I'd understand that he's really busy and if we could only see each once a ...

My husband and I stayed together, just plodding along to this day, but our marriage was always unhappy, we've had ups and downs but mostly downs. Is it time to part?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some advise, please help, I appreciate your honest opinions. It's a long one, but I want you to be as informed as possible, so I have more informed responses. I have been married 4 years, I married at 21, I met my husband at 17. I...

I'm attracted to a guy 11 years my junior, and I'm falling out of love with my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I am in such a desperate situation so please bare with me. I have been with my husband for 13 years we have 3 wonderful children. I found myself attracted to another man who is 11 years younger than me. He is not the problem ,even though the ...

My ex's flirting to me (while drunk) made me reconsider my current relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyf 3 and 1/2 years... a lil while ago i bumped into my ex who i was with for 2 years. He told me i was looking really well and reminisced about us when we were together and flirted with me all night. I was completely faithful ...

Is it too late for counselling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been arguing for the last couple of months (mostly due to his moodiness). We have been married for 3 years and together for 7. He had mentioned that I had been snippy lately so I was actively working on the problem. He brou...

I'm still in love with my boyfriend, and I believe he's in love with me but the distance that is growing between us recently, drives me closer to another boy. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year now, and I really believe we are in love. However, lately, he has been neglecting to call me much and when he does, he's usually watching TV or doing something online and barely pays attention. So a ...

I'm so sad and desperate.How do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I fall in love with someone who will never love me back. But I just do not want to give him up, even I konw that I should. It's so hard for me. Sometimes we meet and I had the most romantic time with him. It's the most painful when we had to p...

My boyfriend is so immature, he pouts constantly like a child, I am at a point where I feel I want a MAN and not a boy! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship w/ my bf for 2 years. Sometimes I feel like it's very serious. Sometimes I just want to leave. There are so many problems that I don't where to start. First of all, sometimes he is so immature I feel ...

Most of the time, we can only talk online. Then her replies are delayed and out of context. Also feel she is finding excuses to end the relationship. Your opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5940 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - My gf has been very busy reading news and joining online discussion about election. When we met online, I need to wait a long time for her to reply the message. At least 10 minutes. The worse, the reply isn't actually a reply eg hahahahahaha or ...

I'm stuck! I'm in love with two guys and I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5940 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has ...

We are really serious, but I can't let go of the past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5940 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I am 15, and I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are really serious, but i can't let go of the past. He went to a party and cheated on me and i was so hurt so icheated on him and he used to lie and this hurts me to even write this. I ...

I used to really love him and feel attracted to him, but now I feel that all I want to concentrate on is to study and get good grades -Why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. I’ve always had minor doubts about the relationship, thinking in general that it could only last till I go off to university, and I’ve heard much advice that long distance doesn’t work. Plus my ...

He's depressed and won't seek help, I feel all I do is take care of what he needs while he neglects me. I think I want to end it but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm a divorced 48 yr old in a four year relationship. My boyfriend is 50 and he is depressed constantly and won't tell the Dr or get on medication for it. He seems so up and down, you never know how he'll be. He never remembers my birthday (not in 4 ...

16 wks pregnant and my husband's just told me he's fallen out of love with me. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I am 16 weeks pregnant and my husband told me after the last appointment that he has fallen out of love with me. I asked him how long he felt like this and he said just a few days. Can you really fall out of love in a matter of days? My husb...

My boyfriend suffers from depression and he acts like he doesn't want us to be together anymore... Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Whats happening to my relationship. Hi there my boyfriend of almost a year, suffers from very bad depression. At first he used to be very loving and affectionate, untill the last few months he doesnt text, call, or make any kind of a effort. Whe...

Am I a bad person because I either want everything or nothing at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) - I've been moved reassigned from LDR to "friend" and she can't understand why my attitude towards her has changed. She's been hinting at it for a couple weeks now by telling me what she wants in a man (none of which I am) and the other night she ...

I feel like my boyfriend and I are drifting apart. I don't know what to do, Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5944 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - sometimes i feel as if my boyfriend for a year and i are emotionally drifting apart. i no longer get butterflies when i'm around him and there are other people that i call first when i'm bored. i dont know if it's just because we're growing into ...

How can I stop sabotaging my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - Ok...I dated this guy for six weeeks but then just broke up with him...i didn't really have a reason and i had been slowly pulling away for about a week. I do this for all my relationships...i date them for a week or two and then i pull away....i ...

He is threatening to take away my child once it is born!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) - What do i do my boyfriend physically and mentally abuses me. Im pregnant now with his kid and he is threatening to take my kid and leave me and get me for child support... weve been dating since i turned 16. i got pregnant about 8 weeks ago. i just ...