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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:From time to time, my gf and I have a fight. Every time it happened, she dump me and we get back together after few days. This time is no exception but I feel it is quite different from the past fights and I am confused.Usually, during the fight, doesn't matter who start it, I will not able to reach her through phone. She will still reply the email, text and offline message.Her reply contains lots of verbal abusive words but if she is replying, I felt she still care about the relationship. If she doesn't, there is no use she replied to me. Isn't that right?She is quite stubborn. Even if you told her the truth, she still hold on to her pessimist thoughts. Accusing and she can hear no explanation.Ok, this is what happening now. After 3 days of no email, text and offline she finally sent me email and offline.She forwarded an email to me. The content of the email is a joke on the topic I like and at the same time emphasized women are smart. What's her purpose? I didn't say she is dumb, in fact, I never use a single abusive word on her.Before we fight, she will work for a new company soon. I asked her schedule in email and offline. I am not controlling her, I just want to know when I can call her. She replied the offline telling me her schedule but she add in, she still don't want me. Why she updates her life to me if we are over?And she is back active in social site which usually she won't until we settle the fight. When I read her post, she seems happy and mentioning someone, that person is not me. Is she trying to make jealous?I want to talk to her in person but I couldn't visit her until the next holiday.I don't have many past experiences. She is my third gf and the two x, don't behave like her. When it is over, it is. We still contact each other from time to time to know each other well being.What are your opinions? Honestly, I felt she strings me. The reason of this fight is very small. It is her never actually listen to my explanation. We are both 30+ but sometimes she is emotionally unstable. She is fine today and for no reason, she mad at you the next day.Do I need to keep calling her when she never pick up? What should I do now?Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): honest? i would leave her in peace.
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