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writes:I am concerned. I have been with my man 5 years. We recently had a 7 month break as our reltionship was in a bit of a rut (my call). I am glad to be back together, and he is doing everything he can to make things better. My concern is that i have totally lost my sex drive since getting back together, and get frustrated and angry at just little things that he says or does. I feel like a real bitch when this happens, but can't seem to control it. I really dont know if these issues will pass, or that we simply are not right for each other. Please help!
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reader, SadieB  +, writes (24 September 2008):
When everything they do aggravates you, then you know it is a sure fire sign to move on. Also, losing your sex drive is another way of knowing things are not working out. You have been with this man for 5 years (ignoring the 7 month break) and you don't say why you got together after the 7 month break? 7 months is an awfully long time to break up with someone and then get back together again. If it was his decision to get back together, and you went along with it, whilst ignoring your own feelings, then perhaps it is time now to accept that your love is not strong enough to hold you together and move on. If it was yoru decision to get back together, then maybe you should wait a little while before ending things completely, because there must be a really good reason why you got back together. Time really will tell if you are doing the right thing. If you are not menat to be together then there will come a point when you can no longer stand being in the same room! EVERYTHING he does will irritate you and you will be snappy and aggressive all the time. Most people end relationships before they get to this stage, they read the signs and move on. But others need to be sure and, like I said, time really will tell. Why don't you relax, try to enjoy being with him, get to know him again slowly and don't rush things. However, as soon as you are sure you can't make things work with him (if this happens) then move on so as not to cause him too much pain. Best of luck X
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