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Archived questions from: June, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How can I stop falling in love so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2006 days ago

30 June 2019 (F) - It is so easy for me to have feelings for someone that I'm kind of scared being too influenced by this... I don't really like group social gatherings much, and would prefer one on one talk. The problem is, once I have a really good communicati...

My boyfriend's grandma doesn't like me or approve of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1903 days ago

29 June 2019 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have decided to get married. The thing is I feel like his grandma doesn’t like me at all for some reason and he kept saying she did. Then today, his sister was talking about babies and I just made a ...

Is it worth for me to get into a relationship if I feel that the man will inevitably lose interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

26 June 2019 (F) - I am having trouble dealing with the thought that it seems no matter how good a relationship or marriage or how beautiful a woman or how well she looks after herself it seem that everything I hear about read and see in real life it’s ineveitavke ...

I escaped an obsessive ex only to get married to a man exactly like him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

25 June 2019 (F) - I don't even know where to start...I guess I'm going to tell you about this in two parts. When I was in high school, there was this guy, James, who was new in school and he wanted to go out with me. I refused because I wasn't interested. He p...

Possible three years affair between my boyfriend and my close friend, is she lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

25 June 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I got drunk at a mutual friend's party. She's supposed to be my friend but I had always had some feeling ever since I've been with my boyfriend and also with my ex she used to be a very flirty friend since I can remember. Long ago I ...

My insecurities are making me wonder if I should make things official with him or just break up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1987 days ago

24 June 2019 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 9 months who's 20 years older than me. I've been taking it slow because I was married for 7 years before this and I've been a bit nervous about a new relationship after my husband cheated on me (resulting in the ...

My boyfriend expects me to cut his family's hair for free since I will soon be a hairdresser

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1903 days ago

23 June 2019 (F) - I'm about to qualify as a hairdresser and my bf if expects me to cut his families hair for free otherwise he says it will be awkward? He has a large family and I've spent nearly a year and half working for apprenticeship wage. Am I right to be ...

My conflicted feelings make me wonder if I would be better off single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

22 June 2019 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now. I love her very much but in the past year I've found myself less and less attracted to her physically. About three months ago, we had a huge row in which she accused me of being distant...

Why does a man with a perfect girlfriend still feel the need to have sex with someone else?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

22 June 2019 (F) - I'd like to know WHY a man can have sex with two women at the same time? I don't mean a threesome. But having two sexual relationships concurrently. One of the relationships is with a woman he's been with for 6 years and he supposedly loves...

My girlfriend and my friend/roommate are way too close for comfort! Should I be concerned and who should I be upset with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2013 days ago

22 June 2019 (M) - I've been seeing this this young girl for couple months now. Very passionate with each other sex is great! She says I love you and so do I and I do love her.we started out as friends.. anyway, recently I moved in with my friend into a two-bedroom ...

They are both my friends do I tell her that he's going to a swingers club?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

21 June 2019 (M) - Hi everyone, Around a year ago I found my very close friend on a popular swingers site. He’s my best mate and I’m also pretty close with his girlfriend. They’ve been together for a few years now and have a serious relationship, house, engageme...

My boyfriend has grown more distant as my pregnancy goes on. Is he no longer interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

21 June 2019 (F) - Hi so my boyfriend of a year and a half and I got pregnant recently. At the beginning when we found out he was so supportive going to appointments, helping me figure out what is going to happen with our living situation etc. Everything recently ...

Do I give up my baby dream

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

20 June 2019 (F) - I joined a dating site last year and after a few bad dates i found a guy that was perfect we had several dates loads in common enjoy each others company but he decided to tell me hed rather be friends with benefits. I agreed but now im unsure what ...

How do I handle my husband's annoying best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

20 June 2019 (F) - My bf of 5 years has a friend who I can get on with but he's a bit annoying. Recently his friend came to stay for 5 days and it was very testing for me. It's one of his best friend's so I just smile and get on with it while he critisizes my cooking ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1976 days ago

20 June 2019 (F) - I just need some advice on a situation I am overwhelmed by. im not sure how common this situation is , I don't want to be judged I just need some help. so the situation is this. I have been with my boyfriend for four years, our relationship has...

He thinks I like his best friend but I like him. Its a mess!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

19 June 2019 (F) - He thinks I like his friend yet I like him. We were attracted to each other and we knew it..but we didn't talk about it. His friend who is more out going and social asked me out and I told him I am not interested in a relationship but we can be ...

My boyfriends contact with other girls makes me very insecure

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

18 June 2019 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now. I’m 19 he’s 22. Up until about three months ago he had been in communication with his obsessive ex, texted her and talked on the phone with her once because she had some drama about ...

Ten years together and yet I still don't feel like part of my boyfriend's family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

15 June 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I are close to being in our 10 years of being together. I love him deeply and I am happy to marry him. There is just one thing that bothers me. His mother and brothers do not care about me at all. I understand that family means ...

I think my boyfriend is cheating and lying to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

13 June 2019 (F) - hello to all ill try to make this long story short, i am in love with a man whom ive been with for two years, we have had some break ups along the way because he was unfaithful and got someone pregnant, he wanted to work things out so he asked for ...

My boyfriend constantly quits jobs and I'm tired of picking up the financial slack

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

13 June 2019 (F) - Been together almost 5 yrs. We live together and have a joint bank account. I have been working for the same company for 2 years now, full time, doing about 50 hrs per week. About one year ago he suddenly quit the job he had been with for a long ...

Was my boyfriend lying about the period he was depressed and about how things were with his ex wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

13 June 2019 (F) - My boyfriend has told me a few times that the years he was with his ex wife he was miserable and it was the worst time in his life (we have been together two years, they divorced over ten years ago) The other day while I was driving I asked ...

I feel I have no say in how we spend our holidays becuase I have no family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

12 June 2019 (F) - I wrote last week about going on holiday to see my partner's family and the fact that we had to keep to schedule and had no time alone even though I was ill. I appreciate everyone's advice. Some said I should have my own staycation meaning stay at ...

Why am I always the runner up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

12 June 2019 (F) - Why am I always runner up? I don't date much - in fact in the last few years I hardly dated at all, but the last three men I was involved with all chose someone else over me. The first went back to his ex, the second chose to date my friend instead ...

Why does my boyfriend have to say hello to every young blonde woman that he sees?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2023 days ago

12 June 2019 (F) - I been with my boyfriend for two years now but every time we are out walking when a young woman passes by he says hello I don't understand this as I don't say hello to random young men or women passing by and it really winds me up. He says he's just ...

My boyfriend's family are very badly behaved with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

11 June 2019 (F) - Hello, I have a question about how I should handle my feelings toward my boyfriend's family. We have been dating for seven years now. I am 23 and he is 26. When we began dating, his mother did not like me at first but I learned it's because she is a ...

How can I help her deal with an abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

10 June 2019 (M) - So I've recently met a girl and we have started seeing each other. It's going well and I like her a lot. She recently confided in me though that her ex boyfriend was abusive towards her. She told me that he was generally a very angry person who ...

He doesn't have the guts to fully accept me in his life yet won't let go of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

9 June 2019 (F) - Please could somebody help with the below before I lose my mind? I apologise in advance if this gets long winded! I’ve been with my partner 8 years. There is a 15 year age gap - he was divorcing when we met and his family frowned upon this. For t...

Where do I meet single gay/bi men in a small, conservative town like mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

9 June 2019 (M) - I am 33, male, from England, the United Kingdom. I'm mainly attracted to women, but have some (albeit, small) attraction to men. I knew of this way back in September 2004 but have never really done much about it. Other life issues have go...

How do I fill this need to be the nurturer in the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

8 June 2019 (F) - I have an emotional dilemma. I am 24 and have a wonderful boyfriend who has a huge extended family (all of whom are lovely people). He had quite an idyllic childhood. My childhood was less happy. My mother died when I was 12 and I suffered sexual ...

Why are my parents showing contradictory responses to my dating? And should I proceed with my day trip and longer plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2026 days ago

8 June 2019 (F) - Hi there, I actually have three questions after the back story of my situation. To begin with, my parents were really uptight on the idea of having a boyfriend or dating. However, a couple of months ago, I got to know a guy from my university an...

Why was he dating me at the same time as getting back together with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

7 June 2019 (F) - He should have just told me that he had some issues to work out with her and I would have stepped aside. I didn't even want to get involved at first but HE'S the one who pursued me... HARD! He talked about the future with me and made plans for us ...

How do I stop overthinking my insecurities and thinking my boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1608 days ago

7 June 2019 (F) - Hi guys. I just wanted to come on here and get everything of my mind. Il try to give as many details as possible I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and although that might not seem like a long time to some, and like we have...

Who is the guarded one? I’m ready for a relationship and am willing to work on opening up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

6 June 2019 (F) - I’m looking at online dating and chatting with a guy.He keeps saying, I’m guarded.But I’m prepared to trust, tell him whatever he needs to know,. I’ve told him to ask, what does he want to know.? I want to get to know him and have told him so. He ...

How often do exes get back together for their child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

5 June 2019 (F) - I recently started seeing a guy with a young son. I really like him and I think he feels the same. I've never been with a single father before but it doesn't bother me, I'm sure I'll love his kid. We are taking it slow (for obvious reasons) but ...

Is it possible for beauty to love the beast?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

5 June 2019 (M) - I am posting this question partly out of my own insecurities but also because some people are talking behind my back. I am a virgin who is in his first relationship. My girlfriend is a friend from school who got divorced not too long ago. I used to ...

I'm moving to a new city and would like some dating advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

3 June 2019 (F) - I am moving to a new city soon and would like some tips about possibly finding a partner. I am 51. I have been a single Mum to one daughter since 19 years old. I was married originally but abandoned by my husband / her father. He never supported ...

My fiance's boss seems to be crossing normal professional limits. How can she draw the line without antagonizing him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

2 June 2019 (M) - Hello. I have a situation. My fiance (gf of 7 years, 2 years LDR) got a new job in a multinational company a month ago which was a dream come true for her. Her job profile, work culture, everything is perfect. Here's where the problem arises. Firs...

My boyfriend is illegally in my country, wants to marry me so he can stay on and is planning our wedding which is going to happen in a week!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

1 June 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and he does everything for me and my kids. We first met online, he had come from a far country to visit me and he decided not to go back to his country. So now he has ...