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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Why is it that the only type of guys I'm interested in are guys I have previousy been with but are now in other relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I've recently discovered that the only type of guys I'm interested in are ones that I have previousy been with and are now in other relationships and I don't know what to do about it. I've been talking lately to my ex who is now living in London b...

What is wrong with me? I’ve had two boyfriends and both have left me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I am a 27 years old woman who had had two boyfriends: my first boyfriend cheated on me, we were children (15 at the time) but it still hurt so bad I didn’t get a boyfriend for 3 years after that. The second one is a little more complicated. Two ...

I felt secure in texting him earlier but now I feel I suddenly have to go with all the dating games of backing off and keeping my distance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I started talking to someone online around mid June. We had a busy week so we got to know each other initially through texting and phone calls which was constant each day. We got along really well. I did notice he still went on the site which is ...

Interested in a guy but not sure how to go about it. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 June 2012 (?) - Interested in this guy but don't know what to do...? Alright kiddies, Met this guy on a new online dating site and have been keeping casual contact off and on with him for about a month (in a total, perhaps 3-4 mails on the site). On Sun/Monday...

My boyfriend is jealous of something that didn't happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I started "talking" in February and we recently started dating like 2 weeks ago. I'm 16 and he's 19. He's always been reallyyyyy sensative, and sometimes its really annoying and other times its cute. Like when we first ...

How do I completely forget about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - right so this is gunna be very long i think hahaha but here goes! so basicly i get deppression (not very often at all) and i can feal down about anything petty and im on a bit of a downer at the moment, a girl i had a bit of a crush on (i thin...

He can't understand I am grieving and sex is the last thing on my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - The past six months my Grandfather has been fighting a deadly diease. I was there with him. First 4 months he was at home, so I took the role of nursing him completely. Past 2 months he has been in hospice, and it has been the HARDEST journey for ...

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

My boyfriend loves his computer more than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are avid gamers. We play online all the time and are constantly having conversations with everyone but each other. A habit I've been trying to break with a good walk everyday and outings to get away from our online friends. ...

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

I want your opinion on this email I'm planning to send my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I've been struggling lately with a boyfriend who up until a few months ago was highly attentive and we spent most of our free time together, even though we both have jobs and are very busy with college. In the last while he's been choosing to see me ...

He is so selfish during sex I was nearly crying!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need help! My boyfriend is so selfish in the bedroom, we acctually end up arguing. He is my first sexual partner, I always do everything for him. We normally start kissing then go straight to having sex, and sometimes he goes so deep it hurts my ...

HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was ...

All my mother does is critizise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My mother is starting to really depress me. I am an emotional person and all she does is argue with me because of my boyfriend. She swears i pick him over her, when in reality all she does is pick fights with us. She stays assuming things and it ...

I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have an odd fear. I wonder if anyone else has it. I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance. I found out my boyfriend had been using porn and it played on ...

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said ...

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My ...

I'm worried my girl might start missing her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - am i seriously an idiot for getting involved with a woman who has long term relationship prior to ours? She was with her ex for 4 years ! I ask this question because i know most long term relo's turn to rebounds. Are there any ladies out there who ...

My younger brother is getting married while I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - I'm 29, my brother is 26 and he recently proposed to his girlfriend. I am very happy for them both, but also jealous. I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me and I don't have the guts to put myself out there...

Do I keep trying, or forget and move on? He treats our relationship like it's a chore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We never really see each and if we do it may be only be once a week. He doesnt call or text me that often (like once or twice a week) and he always wants to hang out with his friends but never mi...

The fact that I'm completely flat chested is really starting to affect me and my relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I'm an 18 year old female and I am completely flat chested...and i am not exaggerating when i say this for effect, i am being completely honest, i have the chest and nipples of a 7 year old boy. I have been on birth control pills for over 2 years...

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we w...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

I don't want be pushy for sex, but I also don't want her to think I don't want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - dear cupid... i am 18 years old and i am dating with a girl for about 3 months. we love each other madly but we both are virgins so when any of our conversations tends to have a sexual content, we both feel awkward and stop ... until now, we have ...

How can this work? He is two places above me at work. He says we can make it work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a serious conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and ...

How can I lay the ground for a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi guys. I need some help. Two years ago I had a 2 month, purely sexual relationship with a 30 year old man ( I was 18 at the time). He doesn't know this, but I lost my virginity to him. He is really good looking and has a really cheeky grin, he...

One of the unmarried men has been texting me for awhile!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am very confused right now and need some good sound advice! I am 64 and have been married for 39 years! My husband has Parkinson's and is now in a nursing home! I spent most of my 39 years with my husband as a good wife and mother at home. I ...

Is she going to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - [Mod Note: You are not very clear with all these 'girls' which one is actually your girlfriend. Whose boobs were you looking at? Who did you walk home? Who was talking to a friend on Facebook? Please give each girl fake names to make this easier to ...

How can a single mom get a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - How can a single mom get a boyfriend? Im pretty active, I go to school and work 24 hours a week. I have a beautiful 16 month old son. The dad and me are still ok but he lives 4 hours away. It seems like the only guys I can attract now are guys who...

Asian guy with hot white girl. Never seen it in real life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - You rarely see a very hot caucasian girl with an asian guy (I'm not asking whether you've seen it. It happens, but it's rare). I've read that the best looking girls TEND to like more masculine guys, whereas more average girls TEND to like a bit less ...

I want a boyfriend but don't want to do something drastic!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am a sixteen year old girl who hasn't really ever had a boyfriend. My mother says I'm too young to be worrying about that, but I do really want a long-term, caring, /attractive/ boyfriend. Probably too much to ask, I'm sure. My main problem is ...

Can't tell if he's interested or just a flirt.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I'm tutoring this guy in my summer math class, and he seems like he's interested in me, but he hasn't made a move and I'm really hoping someone can give me some advice on whether he's actually interested or is just a flirt. I've only been tutoring...

I've been told that I'm good looking, easy going, genuine and have a sense of humor. I thought these were desirable qualities. So why do I get zero interest from women other than wanting to just be friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - I really don’t know what to do anymore and I’d really appreciate any advice I can get. I’m 26 years old and have never been in a romantic relationship or had a serious girlfriend. I’m really beginning to wonder if there will ever be a woman ...

Red Flags: What To Watch Out For On A Date

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29 June 2012 (M) - Red Flags: What To Watch Out For On A Date By Frank Kermit, Relationships When you are on a date, and the person you are getting to know says or does something that triggers a well-honed instinct that you need to stop dating that person, you hav...

My boyfriend is planning a vacation with his ex-wife, for their daughter's sake. Should I be upset?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Recently, my boyfriend of about 9 months said that he and his ex-wife were planning to take their 5 year old daughter on vacation to Disneyworld. They've been divorced for a few years, and live about three hours apart, but share equal custody of the ...

Former big guy looking for gay dating advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - For most of my adult life I've weighed well over 300lbs, because of this I didn't date, flirt with guys or get hit on, this was simply a fact of my reality. over the past year I've dropped down to 200lbs and after swapping out my baggier wardrobe ...

Shattered that it could happen to me twice.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I'm new here. I'm 51 and divorced. This is really for the more mature crowd. I would really like to figure out how this could have happened to me, twice now. My background is I married at 36 and my husband left me, for another woman after 16 y...

Why is it that when I fall for a girl, I get irrational, paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I think i need some serious help whats wrong with me? I ask this question because it seems that, EVERY TIME i fall for a girl, i become paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling, but sometimes i also get VERY DISTANT and quiet, and i...

Should I keep trying to cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - Heyy guys i have a question about a girl i know lets call her "a" and she has had a boyfriend lets call him "b". i have been friends with this girl for quite sometime now, and she has been having relationship troubles with b for months now and she ...

Boyfriend is under stress and being grumpy and short tempered. How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hey guys i really need your help i feel like im going crazy. Well tomarrow is me and my bf one year anniversery and i love him so much. The problem is he lives with his ucle and his uncle is the meanest and rudest person i have ever met. His uncle ...

Girlfriend treats her grown children with "kid gloves" but stomps all over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I have been in a great relationship with a lovely and wonderful woman for 2 years. We love each other very much, have just bought a house together and are engaged and plan to be married next year. Here is our problem. She has three adult ...

How do I find a boyfriend who doesn't use porn?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I am deadset on finding a boyfriend who doesn't use porn when in a relationship, my problem is how will I know? In what way could i find this information out? If i tell them i dont like it they will hide it from me or tell me they don't ...

We've been dating 6 years and have never had sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - i am a 24 years old virgin going out with a guy for over six years now,though we do kiss nd do some other thing,but not to have sex,but sometimes i feel pity for him just because of his patience with me.what should i do,cos i dont want to have sex ...

I'm 22, my girlfriend's 30 and I feel that she's embarassed about our age gap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I've recently started dating this new girl. She's amazing, smart, funny, we get along really well with each other, we have a lot of the same interests and we just have a lot of fun in general. There's also a lot of genuine physical attraction there ...

Guys: When you ask for a girl's phone number, are you looking for a friend? Or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Guys: When you approach a girl for her number and introduce yourself as being interested in making friends with her, are you guys purely pursuing this relationship as a platonic one or do you usually have something more in mind? And do you get ...

If I am resigned to a lousy love life but otherwise a good relationship is that worth hanging onto?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - Dear Aunts, I am more in love with my current girlfriend of 5 years than I have been with any other woman, but she is a sexual dead fish. She does not enjoy sex with me and she won't work with me to improve it. Quite frankly, I think she i...

I'm tired of waiting my turn! I want a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - So, my problem is, I just graduated from high school and this is my last summer before college. I had a fall out with my used-to-be closest friend, so I've been pretty lonely. I do have other friends to hang out with, but it's come to the point ...

She has chosen to marry another guy because he is financially stable and can get her out of this town!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I guese ill start by saying iv never had any thing like this happen to me and i don't have a clue what to do! Well iv been dating this very sweethearted girl for about 4 months, were great togeather, shes my bestfriend, feels like the one but im not ...

My older friend targets younger girls. Should I talk to him about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hello all, I know this opinion may be controversial, but here it goes. My friend just graduated from high school. He's a really cool guy and all but he always goes after girls who are 13 or 14. This is weird to me. I don't mind age differen...

Can I endure my hellish future in-laws? Is it worth it? Could he do more to protect me from their malice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hi there, hoping someone can help me... Got engaged about a year ago to X...love him to bits, I've never felt so comfortable or happy with someone. However,his family... is a different story. I'll start off mentioning that his parents spli...