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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'd been seeing a guy on and off for 3 years, now he says he wants to commit long term

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I asked him to try and put it into words how much he liked me: "Just trust me that it is a hell of a lot, we were so close for so long, how could that have not meant the world to me" Seems like there was nothing wrong.. I'd been seeing a guy o...

I'm ready to have sex with him, but it's my first time...advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys this is a really personal question and I hope you can help me with it I,ve been dating this guy for nearly two months. He makes me feel amazing and beautiful and like i,m the only girl in the world I,ve met his family and I think they...

My boyfriend makes me feel unwanted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a few months now and he as started making me feel really unwanted, He means the world to me and I thought I did to him as well but lately he as been really different towards me, He seems to be spending more ti...

Why did he alter the classification of what went on between us after it was over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I went out with / dated this guy. He used the word "relationship" to describe us at the time and said that's what he considered our affiliation to be... but afterwards he classified it as "hanging out." I heard he told someone else that we "didn't ...

When is the right time to kiss in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - So I was wondering when it was safe to kiss in a relationship? Is a week too early? Should I kiss her first or wait until she asks me to kiss her?...

Is it too soon to say "I love you"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Okay, so recently (about a month)I started dating this girl. She was my first girlfriend I did ANYTHING with, I even lost my virginity to her...Is it too soon to say "I love you" or am I just caught up in post sex lust? ...

Is this how things usually are? My new boyfriend rarely hugs, kisses and sometimes does not talk

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hi i am new to this site but i need some help... i have a new boyfriend who i have been seeing for 5-6 months now, but it feels like he does not like me the way he been saying and he barely hugs, kisses and sometimes barely talks to me. we do liv...

Snooped and found out that my some guy kissed my GF! Now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - So i did something bad. I snooped my GF facebook. I found a conversation that she had with her friend. They are talking about a party that my GF friend attended. her friend said something like "3 guys tried to make out with me , they pretty much...

Why does he want me all to himself? He does not like us going out with our friends as a group

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hi so i've been with my bf for 3 months now and i like being with him . the thing is that he doesnt like it when we go out with friends. He just wants it to be me and him. I mean ok thats not wrong but i dont think im asking for a lot if he comes ev...

Just recently called me the wrong female name, twice. Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hello, My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We don't live together. Recently he's called me two different female names one was his exes name, the other was some name I've never heard of. He has no sisters nor anyone he works with by that name...

I know he's a bad boy. Should I be worried that he's rescheduled our date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - So this guy i like took me out, we had fun, he scheduled a date 3 days later, and then last minute the day of the date he called to cancel he said he was really tired and that he wanted to give me his full attention. he also seemed really apol...

My mind says do not go back to my abusive ex. My heart says yes. what should I do? Should I just stay friends and avoid relationships for a while?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants me back. What should I do? He is 26 years old, I'm almost 17 years old. Our relationship was of 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. We met online. I broke-up with him 3 months ago but we still remained in contact on ...

I have serious trust issues with men....should I try dating women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - The last year ive been thinking about dating a women/woman. but im kinda in a boring, confusing, and unfaithful (on his part) relationship right now. im really attracted by the beauty of women. and im sexually attracted too. ive never dated a woman. ...

Is this girl, who I love, worth another try, or will I get hurt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated about 11 months before she dumped me. We had a fantastic physical and emotional relationship, we had great chemistry, and often stayed up to the late hours of the night talking and just enjoying the companionship of one ...

I have so much love to give. But how do I encourage my first Gay love relationship? Also low self esteem is another issue for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and I'm gay. The thing is I've never been in a relationship and I feel so lonely all the time. I really want to be with someone. I'm not desperate, but one of my greatest fears is spending my life alone, and not sharing myself at leas...

Why is he so committed and so confident that our LDR can last the distance until we can be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I'm in an LDR relationship which has gone on for about two years. We have met and want to see each other again. Problem is, there is a huge distance between us, and it will be another four years perhaps even longer until we can live closer to e...

Should I try to fix things? Or move on? I feel so insecure now that his attractive ex is trying to talk to him again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hi, so my bf of a year and i live together, and i just kinda broke up with him. we are perfect, except for that we rarely have sex. i tried to get him to open up and he talked about how he doesn't feel he fits with me sexually. I know his ex and h...

My friends have suggested my Gf is emotionally abusive. Should I try to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a girl. I am 24, she is 23. First off I would like to say I know I am not perfect, I dont think its entirely her fault and no I dont know exactly where my fault lies, nor will she tell me half the time. ...

Do we have a relationship or not? He says only his 3 year old daughter keeps him in a relationship with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now and we have a 3 year old duaghter together. Now he's said to me several times over the past 3 years that if it wasn't for our daughter me and him wouldn't be together. The last time he said it was prob...

I am having problems with being too hairy, Girls please what are your solutions to this problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Ok like I said this is a question for women only. Here is my problem. I hit puberty somewhat late in life (around 13 when most of my friends started around 11). Anyway I have become all too aware of my 'hairy' nature. It seems I got my father's ...

Is it me? Or do I need something? Low testosterone? No pheromones? Would supplements help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. It's not easy to talk about this but maybe you can help. I'm in my early forties, and all my life I've had almost no luck with women in terms of romance and sex. I had one girlfriend in school, and I've had a few dates over the y...

I still truly love her, but what can I do? I still try to set up dates. She has never apologised

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I seem to be stuck in the past. I met this girl 4 years ago whom i can honestly say i love with everything i am. When we first met we could talk about everything under the sun for hours and hours with not one awkward silence. After awhile our ...

People keep calling me frigid. It pressures me and upsets me. How can I better deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Im ábout to turn 16 years old and i have never had sexual contact with a boy. Sure ive made out with a few, but never any further. Its not that im 'frigid' or anything i just havent found the right person. However, when anyone hears that i havent d...

Guys seem all over me. But I do not dress slutty. Why does this keep on happening to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I don't dress slutty nor do I look slutty. But most of guys I meet all say am sexy. I do have nice features and I would say am cute. But of these guys I meet say am sexy and they just come on me so sexually strong. When I go out I wear clothes that ...

My Affair of the heart has ended. How do I get over my lover? I've been married 7 years/

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I had an affair of the heart. I'm married and have been with my wife for 7 years, and we have a son. There is nothing wrong with our marriage in general, nothing I'm unhappy about. Anyway in February a woman came into my life. She works for t...