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writes:Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a few months now and he as started making me feel really unwanted, He means the world to me and I thought I did to him as well but lately he as been really different towards me,He seems to be spending more time with his friends then with me and I cant take it any more. he talks to me like i'm just sum random person not like his girlfriend anymore, I try to get his attention sometimes but it doesn't seem to work.Ive rarely seen him this past month and when I try to ask him about spending time together he always seems to be busy doing something.I cant take it any more and feel like im gunna end up getting my heart broken. Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (5 September 2011):
 Well, you need to come to terms with the fact that he most likely DOES NOT consider you to be his girlfriend any longer.I know he hasn't come out and told you that in so many words, but you know the old saying that actions speak louder than words? This is what his actions are telling you. He probably does not want to hurt your feelings by openly saying you and he are no longer dating, however.If you feel you can't take it any more - then DON'T "take it." Stop asking him about when you're next going to see him. In fact, let this go completely and get on with your life......
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (5 September 2011):
 What I believe you should do is sit down with him and express how you feel. Communication is a very important factor in a relationship. And if there's lack of it, and/or you two are not on the same page on something, it can cause your relationship to destruct.
You can also ask him what can you both do to make the relationship better. Get his input, and then express what you would like him to do. *By getting his input on what YOU can do, can make HIM more incline to change his ways.
Hope this helps! :^)
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (5 September 2011):
 Why are you going to get your heart broken? You have to be with someone that isn't too busy not being a man and spending time with a woman every now and again to get your heart broken.
He is either cheating on you or he has no drive whatsoever.
Either way, this relationship needs to end and he needs to be shocked back into reality, for his own good.
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