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writes:Hi so i've been with my bf for 3 months now and i like being with him . the thing is that he doesnt like it when we go out with friends.He just wants it to be me and him. I mean ok thats not wrong but i dont think im asking for a lot if he comes every once in a while with my friends, right?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod  +, writes (4 September 2011):
 The fact that he doesn't like you and him going out with friends sounds as if he's possessive. If you were going out with friends without him, his behaviour would make a little bit more sense: he could be worried or paranoid. But if he doesn't like it when both of you are out then it sort of suggests that he has this idea in his head that he owns you. I'm sorry to say that it seems a little bit worrying.
I think you should make it clear to him that you have a right to go out with friends, either alone or with him. And no, you're not asking a lot. If he responds badly to this, then I'd tread very carefully. It's best to get out of a bad relationship as early as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2011): This sounds like the beginning of a very bad relationship. Jelousy may be responsible for his behavior. Also just being a clinger and a loner. No matter what this will cause you to lose all your friends and supports... then all you will have is him. And that is where the real fun begins! So beware.
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