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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I wrong, should my feelings enter into this at all, or am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid; I just ended a relationship with my boyfriend "Jeff" which lasted a little over a year. At the beginning he dumped me via an email saying he was going back to a previous girlfriend. He came back to me when that didn't work out, but it l...

My Bf believes others on my past Bf history. What do I need to do to show my Bf that I am telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - ok so i have been dating my bf for about a year and 3 months already and he recently found pictures of an ex boyfriend of mine who had broken my heart 4 months before i met my current bf and someone is telling my bf that my x and me didnt finish ...

I love her but my brain says run. I need help please to resolve serious reservations about this 'situation'.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I am madly in love and constantly dream about this woman. I cannot get enough of her... But, my brain disagrees. There are real signs that something is really wrong with her... She can't manage money. She cries at the drop of a hat (we can be o...

How do I understand this? our relationship is ok but strained due to her fantasy method of masturbating to photos of her female friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I caught my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years (we are now sophomores in college, but started dating in high school) masturbating to photos of her female friends from our high school. Long story, but she thought I was still taking a shower one day this ...

What criteria do I use to choose which guy? I like them both. They know each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago i met a guy and we've been getting on well and he's been taking me out over the past few weeks and it's been nice and it's obvious he likes me but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend (I know it's only been a few weeks so i guess ...

Is he interested? Can someone give me insight as to what may be going on in his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I've been going to this bar all summer every Sunday and I've made friends with everyone who works there. a few months ago I fell for this guy who works as a bar back there. I'm 21 outgoing and I like to make people laugh. he's 29 and pretty shy and ...

Now I don't believe that he believes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Firstly, let me just say that I love my boyfriend of 5 months and cannot imagine myself being with anyone else. The other night I went out with some friends who I havnt seen for like a year. Anyways, I ended up getting so drunk that I can't ...

What does he mean by "What's the next thing after like, that's how I feel about you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - hello ive been seen a fellow for a year now and everything was fine when i first met him he said he didnt want a relationship and i was seen him a weekends now hes saying i dont ever invite him out to my house and its not going any where and when i ...

Should I disgrace myself by asking her out or should I do the pragmatic thing and refrain from doing so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I'm about to pose this question which will probably leave most of your readers disgusted and repulsed but I need to share my sorrows with sympathetic listeners so I'll simply go ahead and do it anyway. I've recently developed a crush on this re...

I don't feel like I'm worth much to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I cannot deal with the fact that my partner had a relationship before me. He was with a girl for two years, they lived together and he adored her. They broke up when she emotionally cheated on him. he said the relationship was unhealthy - they ...

Even though I've had my tubes tied, could I be pregnant???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I'm 44 and had my tubes tied but hadnt had period in 2 months. i also had some slight bleeding after sex, when i wiped it was light in color and only when i wiped it last thru the day and was gone the next day but happend again after the next 2 ...

Boyfriend has been secretly talking to his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I'm concerned about my boyfriend's crazy ex emailing him on facebook. I've been with boyfriend 2.5 years. Before we got together he used to date this ex pretty casually for a few months at a time, break up and get together when drunk. He then e...

How can I feel better? I'm sad about the breakup after I refused him more than we were doing sexually,

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I was in sexual relationship with a guy 6 months back. I'm 16 and he is 23. I agreed for sex because I was depressed after my break-up and I wanted to get over my ex. It was online relation. We used to sex chat. We never did it in real. He want...

Help!!! What are the pros and cons of having anal sex???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

10 September 2011 (?) - My boyfriend wants me to try anal sex. I am very open to something like this. However I want to know the pros and cons of anal sex? It's a simple and short question, and help would be much appreciated....

She's less enthusiastic in bed now. Is My Girlfriend Being Selfish In Bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I'm new to this but it has gotten to the point where I need somebody's opinion. I've been dating my girlfriend for close to 3 and half years and I'm very much in love with her. Like most relationships, it was pretty "active" in the beginning and ...

Does he sound like someone who could grow up and see me as the girl he could build a life with or should I just forget him altogether?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Met an american man while I was traveling in africa (i am canadian), dated him for 3 months, "just to have fun". I was 27 and a virgin with a couple of serious past boyfriends, he was 23 and a non-virgin with lots of casual making out/fooling around ...

My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

10 September 2011 (?) - Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...

My Gf and I have reunited. But she is acting strange. Why would she do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Almost three weeks ago I got back together with my ex, spent the day with her, had a fairly good time. She's called me once since then to tell me she's going over to a friends' house, then hangs up like I'm just someone else. She swears up and ...

She flirts, but isn't interested, then flirts more? Does she want me or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - so heres my situation, me and this girl (ill call her j) got pretty close on this trip together. never did anything in terms of hooking up but we had some great talks so after we started txting a little and by that time id fallen for her and i ...

Should I give it a try? And talk to my ex-friend who I was in love with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I lost a great friend four years ago. He wanted to be in a relationship with me and I am sure he knew how much I loved him despite the fact that I tried my hardest to hide my feelings. Then came the time when I had to move out of my home state for ...

How? Is it possible to get my cat back as first priority? And get my ex boyfriend back too?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Here is a brief paragraph of my situation. My ex and I broke up this month after a year relationship. We had a huge fight during a trip right before (this is our first huge fight, we were basically ignoring each other during the trip). When we ...

I love her . Loved helping her. But she hurts me so much. Does this sound like a relationship with a future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Hi, So Me (17) and my Gf (14) have been going out for 6 months, I have always done everything I could for her, Bought her games to play when her mum was drunk, Spent weekends out with her. Did everything I could for her. I even managed to get her ...

I want, need, to be more confident. But how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I would like to be more confident around my girlfriend. I always feel so needy around her and i always seem to initiate things from emotional comfort and for sex. Could anyone give me tips on how to be more confident? Thank you...

He will not face me. Why can't some men face you when they break up with you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I need some help. I was dating my BF for 6 months. He just broke up with me via email. Never had one single conversation about anything not working. Tells me I'm wonderful, amazing and he thinks we're just supposed to be friends... but won't talk to ...

Do you think he is into me and I have a chance, or is it just wishful thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I'm going to put this as simply as I can, and even if no one replies, I think I'm going to feel relieved that it is out there - I love this guy! He goes to my school and the dilemma is we are both at totally different social statuses, he is über ...

He sends nasty messages about me to my workmates. How do I stop my soon to be Ex from ruining my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend (who will very shortly be my ex) is trying to wreck my life. recently he has been very controlling and jealous - for no reason, but now he's just doing evil things to get at me, sending facebook messages to my work colleagues and my ...