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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If my b/f wants to keep in touch with his ex, its fine. If I want to do it, he gets really hateful! Why the double standards?

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22 September 2011 (F) - Here's the situation. Over the past year I've been having problems with my fiance texting his ex-girlfriends, some of the stuff inappropriate, and I told him how much it hurt me. So he deleted every girl's number out of his phone. (He was having ...

Why don't I feel butterflies anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - What does it mean when you used to be lovesick about a guy all the time and got butterflies too,but then you start dating and it goes away? 3 I still like him but i just don't understand why that doesn't happen anymore. ...

I'm always just used, girls like playing with my emotions and I'm sick of it all..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - Hello, I am am an 18 year old male and I just can't take it anymore. I myself try to be a nice guy, but guess what? Every girl I date acts like a jerk, and never talks to me again. I'm always just used, girls like playing with my emotions and, i'm ...

How do I deal with this irritating man child whom I had been dating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I'm really mad. I was seeing this 40 year old man child for 5 months. He tells me he really likes me, sees us together but needed time to get himself together after a break up. He wasn't married or engaged to this woman. This guy would only call ...

How can I move forward from my ex, when all I have is this urge to go up to her and beg for her to come back or at least talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up at the end of this summer. Long story short, she told me over text, in these words, "I think I dont like you anymore," ending our year long relationship and crushing my heart. Since then, I've begged, I've tried to be ...

I cheated on him, now he wants me to pay

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hey! So, cheated on my bf and I know it was bad and all. So, please, please, please, no judgment. Trying to win him back. He says he loves me, but his trust is gone. Then he came over to my place tonite and tried real hard to have sex.I refused cos ...

For the ladies who have been cheated on or have divorced parents: how do u deal with a new guy in your life and what is your reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - This is directed at ladies who have been cheated on or have divorced parents. In a very broad sense, it is for those ladies who have been "broken'. I understand you ladies have a general disdain and cynicism when it comes to dating. My question is, ...

I'd like to move away from both my B/f's family and mine to a new city and raise our baby, but I don't think my B/f would ever agree to that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - So I'm 21 and pregnant. About 5, almost 6 months along. And I'm having trouble with the family thing. I love my boyfriend, and his family has been so supportive of our relationship, of us. Well I should say his mom and his dad have. But I just...

Should I break up with my boyfriend for being jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hi I was for a week on vacation with a girlfriend to Italy. First days my boyfriend texted me said he missed me and asked me how I was doing. When I said that I met French and Polish guys and was going out with them that night he starting asking me ...

I've met a man I like-now, how do I catch him?! What will attract him to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Ok guys. What can I do to help me catch the man of my dreams. I know he likes me. He has told me he likes me. I also know its not going to be easy getting him into a real relationship, beucase he has been hurt in the past. But what im a...

Long distance... To give it a go, or remain a single traveler?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys. So i thought i would see what others thought of my situation. Im a dancer, and i am constantly travelling overseas and going from place to place. Me and my ex boyfriend a year ago broke up partly because he didnt want to do long distance...

How do I bring up the "are we in a relationship" question?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for nearlly 2 months but it has gotten to the point where i think we are in a relationship however we havent actually defined the realtionship so not quite sure what we are at the moment how do I go about bringing up that ...

Post-second date jitters. Why hasn't she texted me back yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - I have never really been one for internet dating, not sure why really. Anyway my Friends at work signed me up to this dating site so i thought i would give it a try. I went on a date last Wednesday, just for a drink. It went really well, she seemed ...

G/f's ex has invited her for a movie, and I don't trust this guy at all

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend's old friend / ex boyfriend invited her to the movies with him, alone. Her and I have been dating for 18 months and I've never really felt like this before. I feel, not that she would cheat on me or anything, but the ex will do ...

Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...

Will marrying someone who cares about me help me forget my 31 year old married lover ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - well i am in love with a man whose 31 years old while i am early 20s, sadly hes married and has a child.so i want to get rid of him but cant.so i am thinking of getting married to someone.at least i will have a husband and a home with whom i ll sha...

Does he actually like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - ok, so i have been seeing this guy for two months. the first week i met him, we saw each other three or four times and spent many hours together. our first date was planned at 8pm, and included dinner, and then we stayed out all night for drinks. ...

What should I do? Wait? Make a move? Run away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - I met a girl a month ago and we started a great friendship, probably the closest and most sincere friendship I've ever had. We're both very much alike. We have great conversations and we always find new ways to make each other smile. But as yo...

Ever since we had sex, I am an emotional wreck!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - So i am 16 and i am a junior, and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We are very much in love, and he is extremely special to me, so a few weeks ago we had sex for the first time. I ended up having to take a morning after pill ...

Good guy, great morals, solid education, awesome personality, huge heart... and deathly afraid of commitment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Well... if you saw my other question, you'd understand the background of my situation, but.. from an outsider's point of view, here's my current situation... I love a guy to pieces and secretly cannot threaten the fact that I will move on if he do...

This other guy won't take no for an answer from my g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - I need your help. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while and today she told me that when she was hanging out with her friends. That one of her guy friends hugged her from behind. She brushed the guy off numerous times and told him to ...

I predict my girlfriend will forget my birthday in 10 days. Should I remind her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - I can almost know for certain that my girlfriend will forget my birthday happening in 10 days. I know I will be upset about it. Should I somehow hint it to her? Or just wait to see what happens. I started saying this girl in Japan, 5months a...

I think I'm a jinx on the guy I'm dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4816 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - This isn't exactly a relationship problem but I think i,m a jinx on a guy i,m dating and his friends. The thing is whenever we go on a date something bad happens to him or his friends. We've been dating for two months and on two dates one today and ...

Do you think he sees me as his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - so ive been sleeping with this guy for about 5 months and we do alot of things that couples do. we text and talk to each other everyday he invites me over to his house to just hang out. he has invtes me to go with him to his friends/ cousins. he has ...

How to I get my friend's girlfriend to stop coming on to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - Hey guys, I'm really inexperienced in the whole male female dynamic kind of thing. I don't really know what's a sign of attraction from a girl. So I might as well tell you why I'm asking this. My friend's girlfriend, is like a really good ...