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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I change the way he sees me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - I've got a crush on someone and i've made a real rookie error. Basically I've liked this guy for a while but never had the guts to talk to him properly. We know each other through work. Last week we had a work social, and with the booze flowin...

How do I encourage my boyfriend to call and text me more often?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - It seems I'm always the one to call and text first. I've spoken to him about calling me, but nothing has happened and I don't want to keep nagging him about the same thing. He usually picks up my calls and responds to my messages, and never says no ...

If a girl lets you do things for her, does it mean she likes you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - I met this girl and she asks me to drive her places, and I helped her move. I also help her out by giving her advice. My best bud says if a girl is always looking to you to help her with stuff it means she likes you. I am not sure though. I really ...

What's the difference between settling and being logical?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - What is the difference between settling and being logical? I'm 23 and single. It's strange but it seems like all of my friends are in serious relationships or have been. I haven't. I feel abnormal. I do have admirers but I think maybe I'm being ...

The Juliet-syndrome

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - The thing about Romeo and Juliet is that I've have always been bothered about: Juliet doesn't love Romeo despair of his name. She loves him because of it. It's the classic Juliet-syndrome (if you haven't figured it already, I have cleaverly n...

We only see each other 4 times a month. Is it enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - my man is military and has a busy job he allway tell me he loves and miss me he really a bachelor..but when we are together we have so much fun..but my question is by him being so busy we only see each other about 4 times a month .. does he really ...

How can I nudge him to confess? I'm way too shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - I'll just jump right into it, I had a minor crush on this really sweet, kind, shy, humble type of guy who would do all these little small things for me all the time and not asking for anything back. The problem was I was already currently seeing...

Confidence with meeting women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - When women are asked to describe qualities they want in men, confidence is always near the top of the list. But what does it really mean to be confident? To me confidence comes down to having the belief that you will be able to handle ...

I am worried he may feel smothered in this relationship...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Lately my bf and I have been spending lots of time together. We have been with each other every day for 3 weeks. I also have been staying his place even though i have my own place. Previously was not like that and im really quite happy to be with ...

I despise my married lover...he's a liar...so how do I get out of this one?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - How am I going to be able to last the next 7 weeks with my boyfriend when he makes my skin crawl? He is married and I've been seeing him for a couple of years. Earlier this year we booked a holiday for november but I'm having serious second t...

Does she honestly like me, or am I just a rebound filler?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - Right, I'll try and keep this brief. Just under twelve months ago, I got out of a serious relationship with, to date, my only girlfriend. I found it hard getting back into the dating game but I'm finally starting to make some leeway. ...

He said once he wasn't ready to date but maybe now he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about four or five years. He's been my best friend. Since the first night I met him I've had feelings for him but he made it clear he did not want a girlfriend so I moved on and met someone else. After 2 years of dating, our ...

So frustrated! 37 years old and Single. Please Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a dilemma. I am a 37 year old female who has had relationship problems all my life so far. I have no clue as to what I am doing wrong. My personality is what I thought was my strong point, and I think I am fairly physicall...

Confusion over two guys in my life! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - I still have feeling for my ex,and he just proposed to me. But right now I'm in another relationship,though i don't trust my present bf that much,but i also love him. Am so confused right now...

We are dating and I want to know, where we stand...how can I ask him? Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - I've been going on regular dates with a guy for about 3 months, we know each other through friends for over a year. We are at like 10 dates or so by now. Usually on a weekly basis. He puts lots of thought into them, and almost always insists on ...

Was the holding hands at the bar and flirting just because we were having a good night or does it sound like he's a little interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - I went out for a night of fun with some of my girl friends and met a guy at the bar. He seemed really nice and genuine..he knew some of my friends that I was with that night so we met through them. That evening him and I talked a lot and flirted a ...

I love him and couldn't imagine being with someone else but I just don't know if I can live with him anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Hi I'm having a problem of rather or not I should move back home or stay living together with my boyfriend. We have been together for years and this is the first place we have ever lived other than home and we have lived almost a year. I love him ...

Is a relationship worth the risk of being cheated on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - I have always had a fear of relationships but what really scares me is if I ever fell in "Love" that I would be cheated on. Ive heard and read stories of people that are in happy relationships and then one day they wake up and realize their partner ...

I am seriously broke right now because of him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Dear CUPID!! I'm 23 my boyfriends 35. He recently got fired from his job and has been asking me for money. I recently lent him 2 hundred bucks to attend a football game. I am seriously broke right now because of him. I know he lost his job and I do ...

How can I get my friend to go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - How do I get my friend to go out with me? We aren't real close friends so, does that make it easier? We're both in highschool now, and I know there are more dudes out there who want her. So can anyone help me? P.S.: should I ask her out now or ...

My g/f doesn't have good legs and I'm not sexually attracted to her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 years. Unfortunately, try as I might, I haven't found her sexually attractive for some time. We have marriage plans, and I'm sure she would be a good life partner, mother, etc., but I don't know if this can work ...

Would you have a relationship with a bi polar person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm very worried about being able to have a nice relationship. I was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I don't have a severe case of it, but.. I really don't know what else to say about it. Anyway, would you have a relationship with som...

Should I follow up with this guy, or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - So everyone, I used to be part of this online dating site. I was never active on it so therefore my profile was on "hiatus" meaning I couldn't really request, message, or talk to people. I could only just add them to my "favorites". I talked to this ...

What am I doing wrong? Why can't I find the right guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently I have broke up with my boyfriend for 5 years and i didn't want to be with him. I feel we are living to different lives and see that he doesn't really accept me for who i am and through out the relationship I always felt like...