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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he shy and lonely? Or am I just not his type?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - One guy in particular stands out at my current job But what I really need advice on is do you think he is shy and a bit lonely? He comes across one moment quite aloof almost arrogant and ignores me and the next laid back and childish! Recentl...

Whenever we hug boyfriend gets hard!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Ok, so here's the deal. When me and my boyfriend hug, he gets a boner. I find it hilarious, but I never acknowledge it properly. More often than not, I'll just rest my hip against it and move slightly. Just wondering if there's anything els...

I have concerns about my son dating a Turkish girl

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - I've got two children, a 17-year-old son and a 22-year-old daughter. We went on a family holiday to Turkey last month for 2 weeks, and it was pretty much great - Mediterranean sun, beach, breeze, cool air, etc. However, you normally hear abo...

Why do guys stop contacting a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Why do guys just stop contacting a girl? If everything was going good. I used talk to a guy a lot on the phone, we never actually had a date, but our last conversation was when he rang me, and everything was good. He is single so am I. Then I phoned ...

At 27 I've never had a boyfriend and I'm starting to worry about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - I am a 27 year old female and i have never had a boyfriend or been in love. For most of my life, I have justified it with the fact that I have not met the right person... and while that is partly true... I have also never been asked out by any guy. ...

I'm shy, I think she is too, but I want to ask her out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - alright, 3 part question here. There is this girl in my class at college who is really cute and i want to get to know her/ask her out, but a few things first. 1) im not really a super outgoing kind of person and tend to be kind of shy, how can i get ...

Why is he asking to see me? And agreeing to meet up with me if he's not going to come?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Its quite a long post but I'm so close to giving up so I'd like some advice before I do. I'm 18 and he's 20, we've met up a few times, I met him during the summer but things progressed with us in mid-august, he was very straight forward, he kiss...

I'm married but want to be free but haven't even taken one step to do anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - hi everyone I would appreciate your help and advice. I am 39 and after 12 years of marriage I have had enough - I cannot go into all the detail here but I have tried very hard to make a marriage work with a selfish man who regularly puts me down ...

Does anyone actually know what confidence is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - Can someone please tell me what confidence is? Girls always say confidence is sexy, but there's a problem with that. I am extremely confident at everything I do. Any new endeavor, sport, test, competition, etc. that I take part in, I have a str...

Is she after me for rights to live in UK permanently

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I have a GF now fiancée, I asked her to marry me, however I am now starting to think after what some people said wither she is after me for just rights to live in the UK permanently as most people from country do this, is there any way I can ...

Things are more serious between me and my bf, but he wants sex less, and wants to talk more. why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Dear all, I have been seeing my bf for around five months now. We used to have sex everytime we saw each other, but now things have got 'serious' between us, he comes over sometimes , and we just talk and he leaves without having sex with me. We ...

This guy won't commit to me but he doesn't like it when I'm in contact with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Please read my last two posts, they are all about the same guy. After all of this that I have been through with him, we still manage to continue seeing eachother on and off. I have an apartment now close to his house and he is over at least a few ...

I'm a reformed player and I'm completely in love with my ex, who has moved on with her life..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - I am absolutely still in love with my ex girlfriend. We have been broken up for a year and 9 months. We havent spoken in about 4 months and our last conversation (by email) was civil at the begining, but grew very tense very quickly. This will pr...

Lonely and need help trying to get a date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - Well i need help im about to be 19 height of 5'10 and weight 226 ive been lonely for a long time so i want to date badly but i have trouble doing that because im a big fat guy and i cant stop thinking that i will never find someone to like me for ...

Am I a part of his life? Is this how it's meant to be? he does not allow me to express myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - please help me out here..i am with a male 56 years old...who takes care of me like no one ever has...he does everything and the sex is great...but he does not allow me..to express my self at all..if i feel like i am not a part of his life he ...

Sticky "love triangle" If she doesn't know, should I tell her? That her ex is bi? That he asked me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - ok so im gay, been out for a while now so short story: a bi guy "came out" to me i guess last year long: This guy would come to my school to visit his girlfriend, but we'd socialize to (i didnt know him before he'd come to visit her, nor did I eve...

I'm 16. My crush on my sister's older friend comes and goes. What should I do about this crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - I've had a little bit of a crush on my sister's older friend for about a half year. But here recently my sister's friend and I have been hanging out a lot lately. We've been doing things such as going to the movies, going out to eat, and other fun ...

Why he can't leave me alone like he said if he doesn't care or doesn't love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - My exboyfriend and I have been seperated for almost four months and we were together for almost four years. the first time he wanted to end the relationship was september 2010 and after two months he came back says he missed me. we were ok at that ...

I'm wondering if I'm destined to be alone forever

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Ok I am an Aunt on here, but chose to publish anon (I dunno why really?) I have been split up from an ex about 5mths (about as long as we were together) (He was the first sexual relatinship I had in a long long errr long time!) I am struggling...