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writes: Well after being in a marriage for over 20 years to a men 20 years my senior, it terminated abruptly due to his stupidity, and it hurt me a lot, 10 month had passed and even though I was still vulnerable I decided to go on a blind date with a men over 15 years my senior, Yes i like them older, we talked and had a great time I though nothing wasgoing to happen but as he was saying good bye he touched my arm sparks felt all over and I felt like a young girl. we started kissing and he was the best kisser I ever had,We had been celibate for a long time, mine my husband lost interestin me for long time so sex was zero.we met again and yes, stupidly I went to bed with him,we would talk on phone and we had many more dates always finishing with a kiss, he would always said I made him happy .I became infatuated with him and I could not stop myself sending e mails declaring my feelings for him,Stupid of me I acted like a child. he did think just as I did too that this was moving too fast ,he was surprised I liked him very much,We decided to back off, he wanted to meeet me for coffee in 2 weeks I told him no ,I need time to think ,that I liked him a lot and I was too vulnerable to wait 6 month and then we could start over as friend first, I am dying to call him , I miss him but I have not called or write, Ierase his number and e mail to prevent me from calling,Did I do right? I think I fell for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): no I am not married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Girl i applaud do for a job well done. Good for you. That couldn't have been easy for u to do but u save yourself a whole lot of heart ache and pain by doing what u did. u both rushed things and next time u meet u have to start off as friends as u suggested and see if u really like each other are compatible and that u can stand each other's. You don't want to find yourself in the same situation u just got away from.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 so, why are you waiting, get in touch with him at once. he will be pleased to see you again. go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): honey i think you need to follow your heart with this, if you really fell for him then you need to go and tell him that and if he doesn't feel the same way, then he's not worth it. If it is love, he'll know straight away when he hears you say the words, i love you
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