A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I like this guy, i have liked him since the day we met. He says he likes me so much he doesnt know what to do, then one night he asked me if i would rather date him or be friends with benifits. My heart sank, i said i wanted to date him rather then just be friends with benifits, but he had a diffrent view. He said he is always doing something on the weekends so we could rarley see each other. But that has never stoped him from dating other girls, but then i thought they didnt work out. Could there be another girl in the picture that I dont know about, does he even care, am i waisting my time, should i forget him, is he a liar? What do i do, I need help please!
View related questions:
liar Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): The problem is not that he's lying, the problem is that he's telling you the truth. At least that is the truth about what he wants if maybe not the truth about exactly why he feels that way.
He doesn't want an exclusive relationship, end of story. You do, end of story. So you need to move on.
A
female
reader, QuirkLady +, writes (2 November 2010):
 He's just not that into you. He'll take sex if you'll make it available, but he doesn't like you enough to make time to date you.
I'd move on.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): ~My Advice..**NEXT**~
Sweetie ~ Answer the following question: Do you think that a person who lacks self-respect can justify his or her anger behind being another's sloppy seconds, particularly when he or she himself doesn't even respect himself or herself since he settles for accepting such deplorable role?
~I'll never be another's sloppy seconds. I'm waaaaaay too good!~
...............................
A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 Of course you are wasting your time !
He is always doing something on weekends, but that did not prevent him from dating before. So , it's not he does not want to date, he does not want to date you.
Plus, what is he doing on weekends that cannot at least occasionaly be skipped or postponed or modified to include a significant other ? Unless he studying to be a priest, :) his Sundays are not sacred, and just this "it's all about me "way of thinking " shows he is not fit for any decent relationship.
Ditch him, at your age you have plenty of better choices.
...............................
A
male
reader, slimfish  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 at his age he dosnt want to be tied down to one girl. he's playing the field and why not, there;s plenty of fish in the sea, so to speak.
he has told you he's not looking for a long term thing.
move on, and good luck.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): This guy is only after skirt...not a relationship as he seems to only wanna make time for sex. Thus, I dont think this guy fits your profile for an ideal bf, since youre a genuine girl who wants a true relationship. Cut ties with this fella completely. He seems to be doing you no good anyhow. Good luck :)
...............................
A
female
reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 November 2010):
 Then why even give you a choice, if he wants FWB with you?
That doesn't make sense to me either..He wouldn't have time for a relationship but has time to screw? Well, if the other relationships didn't last, and he's already telling you he's busy on the weekends take that as a sign that this guy isn't boyfriend material and only willing to make time for sex. Move on honey, he's not going to give you what you want.
...............................
|
