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writes:I'm in a relationship with an older guy, I have proof that hes not married and all. It's been five months, never met friends or family and yet, he's met mine. He refers to my god-daughter as "our baby" and is so very affectionate towards me. The other day, he drove half an hour while sick and feverish just so he could lie down with me and be close. I'm a bit confused here. If he's so into me, why have I not met friends at least after 5 months? What's up? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the insight! I asked and he said some of his friends hes known since high school, he luvs them but they can be idiots and he didnt want me thinking he was like that. I met one...nice guy but um, he did try to eat ice cream with a butter knife :p
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 The best thing to do is to ask the man. He's the only one with the answer, honestly, communication is important in relationsihips, if you have a concern don't let it eat away at your psyche, open up and ask him and then listen to what he has to say....repeat back what you think he said or meant in order to make sure you understood him clearly.
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reader, HollieMc +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Well , He could care for you so much, but afraid of what his friends think of you. maybe you are not the USUAL "type" he goes for/dates, and he is worried his friends will judge him for choosing something different, regardless if you are better than his last.maybe he doesnt think his friends are worthy of meeting you! For example, you know those friends you have that you see in public while you are with a family member, and you do not introduce them. ? because they are not THAT KIND OF FRIEND. I think you should be happy to introduce unless something is wrong. Or maybe he does have something to hide, and is afraid his friends would give his secret info away, but it doesnt sound like it to me, the way you described him. i also had a similar problem just recently. My fiance would introduce me to mostly guys, and not some guys too, because they were not good friends he says, (like ppl you just say hi to), ALTHOUGH- he rarely introduced me to girls even if i was standing next to them while they talked, but he did introduce us occasionally, and i do not know what that problem is there, but he says he doesnt "know them like that" so that is where i get my whole idea of "worthiness" and last but not least,the best ideas i have in mind he may be so side tracked with your relationship he would rather be with you alone vs being with you, and his friends at once.or he is worried you are too good for his friends, and maybe he thinks you may judge them. those are the options :)
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