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writes:my partner is 20 and i am 19, we have a 6 month old daughter together. We both lost our virginity's to each other so i have only been with him although he has been with one other (cheated). is it normal for me to be unsure as to whether or not i want to be with him forever? we get along great and have lots of fun but im always wondering what it would be like with another man, i want to be with him but i also want to experience another guy, what do i do? do i stay and forget about other men? what if i do end up regretting my life? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): Im in a similar situation. I have been with my bf for 4 years and he was my first and only. He had others before me but not since. Iv recently been having feelings like wow this may be the only guy i experience! its kinda freaking me out but i think its only a phase im going through and i know our relationship is more important to me than meeting random guys. For your situation however, he cheated on you... Could this be part of the reason why you are feeling this way. It could be almost a resentment that you used to be eachothers only but now your not his only anymore but he is still yours. Is it almost like "well he got to be with someone else so why cant I"? Cause i think that would be a natural feeling if that were the case. Also, i think just being young and in a serius relationship you just get those feelings. I noticed mine because with summer and all i have been in party mode and have been going to the bar a lot. There had been a few boys (really really cute boys!!!) that have shown there interest in me and it makes me think of how fun dating could be since i never really got to experience it before. And its almost like, how do you really know that this person is right for you if you havne seen what anyone else is like. If you are happy in your relationship, the grass with probably not be greener on the other side. But if you really are not that happy, it would probably be a good idea to end things and find someone better suited for you.
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reader, jules19  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 In my experience, if you find yourself thinking about wanting to sleep or meet another guy then there is something missing in the relationship. Probably because you have been together for so long sometimes the spark in the relationship goes and then you find yourself (human nature)wanting a bit of excitement or to feel like a woman again. There is nothing wrong with these feelings just ensure that you dont do anything drastic that you might regret before weighing up the pros and cons in your life right now.
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