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writes: I am going out with a guy who has just come out of a relationship. We have fondled and cuddled a lot plus shared the bed when I stopped over. Friends have commented that we are going into things too soon, but I am confused as to why. Are we really 'rushing' into things? What shall we do to improve the situation/our relationship? How can I tell if he is genuine? Also, does the fact I have met his family indicate his 'serious-ness'?? Please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 July 2010):
Weird, I apologize for the double posting.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 July 2010):
With regard to the "meeting the family" thing, that can really vary from person to person. Really, it's hard to say given the limited info you've provided. Your best bet is to take it slowly, and only do what you're comfortable with. Don't rush into anything, but if it feels natural and right, I don't see a problem.
Best wishes.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 July 2010):
With regard to the "meeting the family" thing, that can really vary from person to person. Really, it's hard to say given the limited info you've provided. Your best bet is to take it slowly, and only do what you're comfortable with. Don't rush into anything, but if it feels natural and right, I don't see a problem.
Best wishes.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (19 July 2010):
Lots of people want to test the waters with the people they date to take it through family approval. If your family hates them why waste your time? And just ignore what people are telling you if your relationship seems to be going well and make each other happy then that is the only thing that matters.
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