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anonymous
writes: what would you rather have:someone who satisfies and anticipates your every need, but feels "wrong" or someone who makes mistakes and is oblivious to your wants, but feels "right"? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (19 July 2010):
So if the one who feels right is oblivious to your needs and he is also not attractive, ...what's so right about him ??
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 July 2010):
No one is perfect:)
It all depends on what YOU want out of the relationship and how well you are matched.
I would say neither. None of them are "right" in any way form or shape!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfunny thing is, the guy who feels "wrong" for me is more attractive (to me at least) and we have more sexual chemistry than the guy who feels "right". that's not to say everything with mr. wrong is purely physical. we just like to be around each other and have a good time... but occasionally, i just feel empty around him as if something's missing.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (19 July 2010):
Neither one !
The one that feels "wrong"... well, if he feels wrong you cannot force yourself to love him, no matter how caring and considerate he is.
And the one who feels "right "...aw come on, how can possibly someone who is oblivious to your needs feel "right" ?? Only if you were a masochist !
I suspect all his "feeling right " comes from being a hottie . While this is nothing to discount- it is surely not enough for BEING the right person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010):
What just feels right can be a dangerous thing. Every person with a dozen asshole exes knows just how "right" those exes all felt for a while.
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