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writes:Hi,I'll get straight to the point.I've been talking to this guy, his nice and everything his like prince charming but not so perfect. We met up once and had a blast. Problem is, he kissed me, i accpeted the kiss and kissed back, i really like this guy. He has a girlfriend though, so he told her about it and she's like its ok just dont let it happen again, well, his been telling me he loves me and i have really strong feelings for this guy. Anyway, tonight he said he likes me more then his girlfriend he just wants to give it more time before he leaves her and get to know me more, then he wants to wait a bit, im happy with that so i agree'd.I know i shouldnt believe what everyone says, but then i got told that yesterday (sunday) he had sex with her, i dont want to ask him about it because the person that told me is my best friend and i promised her, she heard it off her friend who is friends with his girlfriend. Anyway, im scared to get hurt i dont wanna give up on him. This ones really worth it and i know, theres gonna be plenty more guys out there.Can Someone Please Help.Thankyou. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni spoke to him about it and told him how i feel about everything and he aid he loves me so much and he doesnt want to lose me and his gonna talk to her and figure out a way he can be with me, i dont know what the sex ment or who wanted it, shes turning 15, im 15 his 17, but it was unprotected so i dont know what going to happen, he has told her he doesnt want children at that age..
i really do love him, im not going to give up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni spoke to him about it and told him how i feel about everything and he aid he loves me so much and he doesnt want to lose me and his gonna talk to her and figure out a way he can be with me, i dont know what the sex ment or who wanted it, shes turning 15, im 15 his 17, but it was unprotected so i dont know what going to happen, he has told her he doesnt want children at that age..
i really do love him, im not going to give up.
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reader, anonomous_1  +, writes (19 July 2010):
Normally I would say leave him alone because he has a girlfriend and you should respect yourself a bit more than being the side girl you're worth more than that and deserve more too but I'm not judging you and I don't know him but you have to think if he is telling you he loves you while he's with her if you two were to start a relationship why wouldn't he do the same to you. I know you say you really like him and that's ok but i would suggest don't give him any physical attention such as no more kissing or anything of that nature until he makes his decision and that decision is to be with you because there's always a chance that he's just telling you what you want to hear to get as far with you as you let him and has no intentions of ever leaving her, i'm more than certain that he is telling her a different story than what he's telling you. If he really care about you more than her than what is there really to figure out sorry for the long answer but if you still talk to him keep it at just conversation because if he's playing you which i think he is at least you didn't go too far with him. Also I think you should talk to other guys he obviously is involved with another girl so don't put too much time into waiting for him you're way too young to have these type of problems in your life and my honest opinion is that he doesn't have good intentions, boys at your age are usually at the playa stage in their life
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reader, KaileyLove  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Awww. That sounds like a cute little thing is going between you 2. =]
As for your problem:
1.) It's a possibility that she was lying about having sex. Some people do that to makes themselves seem cooler.
2.) He might've just had meaningless sex with her because he was horny or something. (Pshhh, guys.)
3.) It was all her idea.
But, you should ask him. Because he PROMISED to be with you, so you have a right to know what he was doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): So this guy is cheating on his girlfriend with you, and he said he'll eventually break up with his girlfriend after he gets to know you better so you two can date.
Two things.
1. That's not going to happen. If he really wanted you, he'd break up with his girlfriend immediately.
2. You don't want to date a guy who is OK with cheating on his girlfriend. He did it once to get with you. What makes you think he won't do it again when he's with you?
Run far away. Find someone else to date, because this guy doesn't sound like a real winner.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Sometimes giving up on someone is what you have to do... He had sex with his girlfriend so clearly what he wants is some action. It could be that by "get to know you better" he really wants to know if you put out. And don't you think your being a little self-absorbed? You cheating with him is disrespectful. How would you feel if you were the girl he actually was dating? Besides once a cheater always a cheater. If he does that to her what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you if ya'll were together. Maybe you should figure out if those are the qualities you want in a guy.
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