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writes:Okay so, Recently I was in a relationship with this guy, and me and him were also practically best friends and got really close, but he dumped me because he liked this other girl who I'm also friends with and know, and apparently she dumped him like straight after and said he was a d*ck. She came up to me and appoligised for breaking us up, but I told her it was fine. And then we just never spoke for around 2 months, then lately we've been laughing and recalling memories, Even though we haven't spoken for ages our personalities just bounced of eachother, and we automatically have so much fun. I couldn't stop thinking about him after, and he texted me, and my friend tells me that he said to her he still loves me, and I still love him, but If I ended up with him again I'd never trust him, and probably be annoyed with myself because of how hurt he made me before, but I cant just be friends with him, I love him. Help, what do I do?! 3
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Sometimes when guys are with a girl they care about for a long time they just need to take a break and test the waters. You have to give him credit here he was honest and straight up with you about liking your friend. You really have no reason not to trust him... He didn't go behind your back and cheat on you, instead he did the right thing by ending your relationship before pursuing another person. He wants you back and if you guys were best friends then there has to be something strong there. Give him another chance in your life.
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reader, Denizli  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Oh girl.I think you should give him a second chance, maybe the first try wasnt good and a second one could be better.I know you feel confused cause of how he treated you before but I believe people can change.For some reason you are seeing him again, he probably hurt you and now you dont trust him anymore, it happens, he will have to earn your trust again, if hes able to do that I think you guys can go for something serious this time :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): You're young. You have so many opportunities to date. And your gut instinct is probably right: if he's done it once, he'll do it again. If he really "loved" you, he wouldn't have broken up with you for another girl in the first place.Instead of getting back with this boy, hang out with your friends and learn who you are as a person. Then, you'll know exactly the type of guy you want to date. This guy just doesn't sound like he's it.
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