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writes:I had a best guy friend that I was really close to, and we met on a conference for school, but we went to different schools at the timethen, he came to my school, and met my best girl friend, and one night he told me he liked her. When I told my girl friend about it, she didn't return her feelings for himso things went on as normaland then, suddenly i noticed them getting cozier and cozier and I called her on it, and told her,"You like him don't you!" and she said yes, and he still liked herSo I had no trouble with them dating, but little did I know they would eventually start to ignore me, my best girlfriend blowing me off to hang with him, and him COMPLETELY ignoring me whenever she is around, and both of them turning and taking each other's side in fights when one of them is clearly at fault.I have lost two best friends for a relationship in grade 9, and it's not fairI don't know what to do, I feel second place all the time, hanging out with them isn't fun anymoreany suggestions into what I should do?thanks
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reader, love=confusing +, writes (2 August 2010):
love=confusing is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell that's the thing, I have made a note of the things she does with her boyfriend that drive me and my friends crazy so that I remember not to do them when I get one. So for right now it's just super annoying and he is all she cares about
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (19 July 2010):
The same thing would happen if it was you with a boyfriend. You might say "no, I would never do that", but you would, and you wouldn't even notice you were doing it. They are exploring new feelings they never had. It will die down soon, and they will notice you again.
Do not take sides for either one of them, and just be a friend when they need you. In the mean time, find other people to hang with.
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Maybe you just need to change things up and hang out with other people... And you are also feeling like the third wheel. You need to find someone whom you interested in so that you can go on double dates and not feel left out because they have a romance.
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