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writes:MOD NOTE: 2 questions put together..I have been dating a guy for a month now. He is a year older than me and appears quite nice so far. Things between his ex weren't going well and he recently split up from her when he met me. He saw it coming but since we started dating, she has been sending us both messages. Her messages tell me about him, and those to him clearly suggested she is not letting go. His ex and I have never been friends so I am wondering why she keeps texting us. What intentions does she have on us both? Is she trying to really help avoid me getting hurt? Also, if he doesn't have feelings for her, as he says, why does he keep replying? Please help. It's been a month since I started dating this guy who is one year older than me. We have always been interested in each other but didn't do anything til we had the courage to ask each other out and for him to end the relationship with his then girlfriend. He has his own place and I live at home with my parents. Each time we meet up, we went to each other's house. Within a week, we stayed over and slept together. We just slept cosily but didn't have sex. I decided to wait til I feel he is committed and not used as a rebound. Plus for me to be ready for sex... Is it too early for kissing and fondling shortly into a new relationship? Am I wrong to stay over and/or share the bed with him? Am I making myself look easy by doing what I did? Please help.
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reader, LoveIsStrongerThanPride  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 He probably still has feelings for her, thats why he is replying. Its way too early for him to be in relationship with you.
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