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writes:My girl makes me worry so much about us. We are a bit of an LDR. I see her on weekends, sometimes more, for over 3 years now. We are very serious and intend to marry. Plans are set to move in together into a place real soon. But like right now I don't get to see her until next weekend and so we go back to our lives until then. Every now and then she acts differently. She won't call me all day and won't answer my calls. Then she will call me and tell me what she's been doing all day and that she's sorry. She will say it's because she is so busy and when I say "why couldn't you just call me for a sec" she gets testy and says that I know why. Because she was busy. And then she tells me about the other people she talked to today. Ok, am I missing something here? She tells me she was too busy to talk yet talked to other people. There are no cheating issues or anything like that I know. But is she just taking a break from me on those occasions? I mean, cause there are some days where she calls me a hundred times a day. I just never get enough of her, but I guess she does of me a little sometimes. It just makes me feel bad, you know.Oh, by the way, I realize she might put me off til later sometimes because she knows she will talk to me later. I just want to know if that is typical.
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reader, Azula  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Far as i read, there's nothing to worry. Girls are like that naturally. And you are also acting naturally. The jealous of her being able to talk to someone is what I am referring to.
Come on you are her all, her everything but you must face it that she really needs to spend time with others too. Being able to talk with each other soon is also a way to calm one's mind. To the times the she calls a hundred that times... be glad i think that's her way of filling up all of her misses. Sounds it is a good relationship. Care free, that even can result in some bad things.
For now calm your mind and relax. Instead think how can you make the only day you see each other a special one for the both of you. That way you'll be able to make the relationship stronger.
Her's a sweet tip. Create a scrap book or a compilation of your pictures with those sweet times. It must be customized and don't worry about artistry as long as it is created with love it will turn out good. Effort that much on this. Then on that special day of both of you together. Show it to her and give her the nicest kiss and hugs.
Remember to capture the best moments.
Hope you like it and send me a reply. I just want to hear your reply. Good luck. Remain loving and be love. Be happy and stay happy.
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