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*herrysundae19
writes:I'm 22 years old and I have recently started a new relationship with a 25 year old guy. We have been dating for five months now, and the relationship is starting to change to the point where I am starting to question staying with him. I vowed that I would never again date a police officer, but that changed when I met him. He was amazing in the beginning, always taking me out calling non stop, wanting to see me everyday, etc. Now he works 10:30pm to 6:30am, and I work 8am-5pm Monday - Friday. His schedule is constantly changing but hours remaining the same. So the little time we have together I cherish. It seems lately that when there is time for us he is either sleeping or going out with his friends. He's starting to be a smart a__ a lot, and the sex seems like it is not happening so much any more. I feel like he's cheating or possibly does not want a relationship any more. I've tried communicating with him and I get nothing back. If anyone has any advice for me that would be wonderful Reply to this Question
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reader, BeckiiW  +, writes (9 December 2008):
 Well,i dont really know what to say if you have allready tried speaking to him,im only 17,but i thought i would give my advise,it seems strange,no doubt about it,but by honest oppinion is to sit him down and,well basicly tell him ur goin out of ur mind with worry or paranoia what ever it is your feeling and tell him its not right,and if you cant trust him theres not really a relationship.trust is everything in a relationship,if i was in your shoes i would sit him down tell him to look into my eyes and i would dermand the truth.hope it all goes well.x
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